a BAFC's journal

[thinktank1985]

okk...so I am a bafc(below average frustrated chump Smile)...but I am trying to do something about it....I am sort of fugly...have gained a lot of fat....am at present trying to burn them off...while doing serious weight training....its difficult no doubt to maintain the discipline...but I hope it will be worthwhile in the end...

to start off..i have say I have never dated any girl...had never had the courage to do so..since my parents were pretty conservative and discouraged me from talking to girls...further I went to a convent school...and a university which had a ratio of boys:girls ratio of 20:1..no doubt I got so addicted to porn, videogames, movies and all those ****...

anyways...after working out regularly for around 1 month now..i feel a bit more confident around girls..to try out stuff....I have been trying out eye contact routines that I found on the fastseduction website...but I guess I am not really ready to talk to strangers or to girls in pubs....

I am presently trying to improve my appearance and try to increase the duration for which I can hold eye contact without feeling awkward....I have found that starting a journal helps a lot in improving...especially when you start seeing the changes and it also helps to get suggestions from people more experienced....so I shall be starting one soon on this forum....

 

[Ambition Now]

Hey bro, thats the spirit! Get into your journey right now, learn everything you can here, apply it in real life and get ready for this sometimes painfull but always rewarding path!
Welcome!

 

[librito]

keep it going bro.... dont ever say that you are fugly.....work on your personality and charisma and your confidence will go to the sky.....I used to think that I was the ugliest man on earth until I found his site and now when I look at myself in the mirror I see a dj with a lot of confidence...just sacrifice yourself for the good will of your penis and go look for rejections until you succeed.

 

[thinktank1985]

so I posted my profile on hotornot.com....and peculiarly i got 9 responses from girls so far to meet up.....but I am a bit scared to meet up at present....I was thinking of working it out online before meeting up in person....

this is mainly because I have developed a sort of inferiority complex after observing here and elsewhere...that indian guys are sort of disliked by a lot of american women...and if they break it off in person after realizing that I am indian...it would be big shock...

so I was wondering if you guys could give me some advice...how should I start....not all the girls that responded are hot...but I shouldnt complain..since I am not a looker myself...just a 7...according to hotornot....

btw...this is me...http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=KMGMEQOU&key=LCK....

I understand I shouldnt pay much towards my looks...but if you are good looking it makes you a bit more confident...i have been working out for some time...lets see whether in the next month or so i can become an 8 or so...

I have been doing my eye contact routines...its going well too..hopefully i would be able to go up and talk to some girl soon...

thanks

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Cool man. You look cool. I dont like your clothes by the way.Try adopting yourself a swagger like Johnny Depp.
http://fusedfilm.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/johnny_depp_-_a_great_actor.jpg

What i love is the courage to change.Now stop with that BS eye contact routines. Start approaching. I know its difficult. But do it. Firstly , start taking to anyone , guys , girls , old ladies , every fvcking one.
Start doing the bootcamp that comes in spring. There are gonna be many other people doing it with your and they might help with some sticking points.

Bare in mind , your gonna crash and burn 10000 times. But look at the bigger picture, you are working toward something that you really want. Doesnt it feel good ?

Ill be looking forward to see you a real pimp. If you got something to ask , just spit it out.

Good luck
DTP