"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DogFashionDisco

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I just told the girl I like that I like her! I don't know what happened it just slipped out! Actually I couldn't thing of anything else to say so I just said it. After she told me she likes me.


what now?


oh jesus.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah.......

except for the fact that she asked me who I had a crush on, I didn't tell at first, then I asked her who she had a crush on. she wouldn't at first but then she finally agreed that she did on me. so then she kept asking who I did so I finally said I had a crush on her. she is pretty shy.
 

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Wow.

Anyways, ask her if she feels the same way. IF she does, ask her to accompany you to get some food or movies or something.

It's not hard.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol, u know, i kind of miss the good ol days when ppl just told each other they like each other. Enjoy it while u can, when you get to univ and after, it's all games from there.

so since your in highschool, just ask her to eat lunch with you and what not, you probably don't have a car, or a job, the most u can do is just spend time together, go to each others houses.. and see what happens:woo:
 
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Sry u messed up, once you tell that you like her and if you guys haven't been dating for a while then she loses all interest cuz there's no more challenge or mystry. Just move on.
 

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she's barely 15. pretty shy. has a few friends which aren't popular. while I'm hella popular. have a lot of friends. cool. funny.
not to mention we have really similar interests.


God I dunno.
I know I fvcked up.




I fvcking hate talking online, cause you don't see their actions.

there better be a difference between a crush and liking.

I can't do anything with her this weekend, cause she's going somewhere. so now I gotta wait all the way to monday.


but I'm not moving on! you hear me!



how can I keep mystery and interest?
 

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dude..


all you have to say is " i dont like anyone" stop bein afraid
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by DogFashionDisco
I just told the girl I like that I like her! I don't know what happened it just slipped out! Actually I couldn't thing of anything else to say so I just said it. After she told me she likes me.


what now?


oh jesus.
Relax, it's not bad. lol. You can play it off well since it probably established a lot of comfort with her so you can move on to seduction a littler quicker.

I
 

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lol u told her on msn?? hahaha, well that's alright i guess... i had a girl tell me that she liked me on msn before....

but anyways, why don't u give her a call sometime when she gets back, chat it up a little (not too long, or u'll run oout of things to say)

personally... i don't think theres anything wrong w/telling a girl you like her, you guys are still in highschool , it's not really until univ that telling a girl you like her can kill ya.

and in response to you being "popular and cool", no offense man, but one thing you'll eventually learn is noones gives a **** how popular u are or thought you were. When you apply for a job what are you going to write on your resume? "In the cool, popular crowed at school, please hire me"

don't decide to date someone based on their status, the other day i was talking to a girl i was kind of interested in, the moment she started saying how she used to be in the popoular crowd and how she used to be in a beauty pageant I lost all interest in her.

theres more important things than who's cool and who's not. If you and the girl get along and have fun together than gd stuff.
 

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People like you piss the **** out of me. I mean honestly who starts a thread complaining that a girl you like, likes you back. It's not rocket science, you must have absolutely no confidence.
 
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