"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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90 day no fap journal.

faeyt

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Sigh, I'm one of those porn addicts. I've tried to not fap but I can't help it. Probably a masturbating addict more than a porn addict.

But I'll start this too. I think the last time I fapped was a day or two ago but I'll just start counting from right now.
I hate the whole getting hard at everything after a week or so, though. Makes me want to rub my penis against things, drives me crazy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know no one checks this, but I still haven't been able to get past 20 days. The fact that I still haven't been able to accomplish this pisses me off.

I'm going to start small.
20 days, no fap no cig.

End day 1.
 

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day 57 of no fap and porn

but today i watched a 20min clip. a super hot one that i almost fapped but luckily i'm able to snap out of it. is that counted or what?

btw, one tip bros. every single day you wake up, say the number of day to yourself loud (in your mind only. don't write it down. just remember it). every day do that. and before you sleep. as you go by, many days will come and you'll want to tell your self that "you've come that far..don't lose it" that's what i'm holdin on up to now.

good luck to every brothers here who fights this war to their selves. never forget that you are not alone. we are in a war. a war between us and our weaknesses. goodluck gentlemen!

p.s sorry for bad english. it's not my mother tongue
 

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Farthest I have gotten on this since may was 18 days, I'm currently at day 8. I have actually found that it is easier for me if I don't say the days. I have told myself that relapse is not an option, I'm not counting days this is permanent. Hopefully I can get past 30 this time. Self control is pretty hard. :confused:
 

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DJ Bax said:
Farthest I have gotten on this since may was 18 days, I'm currently at day 8. I have actually found that it is easier for me if I don't say the days. I have told myself that relapse is not an option, I'm not counting days this is permanent. Hopefully I can get past 30 this time. Self control is pretty hard. :confused:
Hey man I had no idea people outside of the reddit community were doing this. I dont know if you're aware but theres a huge support community here http://www.reddit.com/r/nofap

I'm on day 13. Hoping to go at least until 2014.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bax You Fail Everytime Brah,just Give Up You Have No Power
 

DJ Bax

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Part of my problem is I don't have a lot of motivation to do no fap. I'm not like a lot of the people who do it that are seriously addicted (every night or more) and I don't struggle socially. I'm very outgoing and don't have a hard time talking to people, I'm just curious if there are any seriously noticeable benefits of making it to 90 days.
 

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No there aren't. Masturbation is absolutely fine as long as there's moderation. You will not boost your test levels or anything by doing it
 
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