"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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9-year-old DJ?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Bat

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I wouldn't go so far to call him a DJ.

I read the excerpts and so much of it screams AFC that it's not even funny.

Sure he gives good advice like, "Move on if a girl doesn't like you." but anyone with a brain can tell you that.

Don't mean to rag on the kid though. Good for him for getting his 15 minutes of fame.

It would be very interesting to find out what will happen to him in 10 years.
 

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Anybody ever thought that this kid either read this stuff or heard his mom or dad talking about it and he's just rehearsing it??!!

I will however be impressed if he was able to fvck closed a 16 year old or even know what to do with one.
 

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The Bat said:
I wouldn't go so far to call him a DJ.
It would be very interesting to find out what will happen to him in 10 years.
Agreed. Of course a 9 year old is going to get attention for writing a book about dating. People may think it's cute and everything,but I doubt that anybody will seriously take his advice. I haven't seen or read the book,but if it has advice about being nice,giving her flowers,opening doors or pulling out chairs for a woman in order to make her interested in you,and this kid really believes this,when he comes of dating age he's REALLY in for a shock.
 
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