Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not hating on you mpimpin, you just doin your job, but that is a lame excuse.mpimpin said:i didn't delete it but probably due to political reasons. Its not a political forum
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dont know why your thread was deleted but not the zeitgeist.ricorico said:I noticed my post on 9/11 rabbit hole is gone. Can anyone tell me why?
speakeasy said:Dont know why your thread was deleted but not the zeitgeist.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is the most mind blowing post I've ever read. I can't believe how brainwashed I was.Quiksilver said:The mods are slowly taking away your freedoms and liberties. Very soon we will be issuing all SoSuave members with implanted RFID chips that will monitor your every movement. If an unauthorized thread is started, your chip will blow up.
Also, all posts made now cost $1, with an attached debt of $0.05. All payments must be made by April 15 of each year. If a payment is missed, the mods will come to your house and freeze all of your assets until Accounts Received is satisfied.
But yeah, if you want the thread back, start a thread asking for it back. Questioning how this forum is run isn't the best compromise for either party.
hope7 said:This is the most mind blowing post I've ever read. I can't believe how brainwashed I was.
I think the rabbit hole thread was deleted because the Zeitgeist was discussing the same EXACT topic. Why did you[ricorico] make that thread in the first place. I remember you posting in it, you knew the same exact discussion was happening in that thread.
I don't think there is a lot of name calling in the Zeitgeist thread. Other than LMS calling people a fascist because they want to silence his opinion. And then there is the occasional poster who surfaces that are so set in their ways that they call anyone who questions who was behind 911 un-American and sick.Also, they say no political threads, but Zeitgeist thread is allowed to stay and is 11 pages long even with name calling. WHY???? Because the mods agree with the original posts?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree 100%. This has been the tradition among intelligent men going all the way back to ancient Greece.Falcon said:It is men's nature to talk about things like politics, human nature, and the world around us, we naturally have that curiosity. Why suppress it in a forum where one of the main goals is self-improvement?
Well, the Zeitgeist thread was still active at the time you made your thread. The orginal topic of the Zeitgeist thread was the events surrounding 9/11 and the federal reserve. More like an interpretation of history. It was made polital by name calling. Your thread right off the bat went into name calling.ricorico said:I made the Rabbit hole thread because I wanted to seperate it from the Zeigleist thread.So threads aren't made on the same subject? If there was a problem, why not combine it with Zeitgeist thread.
Also, they say no political threads, but Zeitgeist thread is allowed to stay and is 11 pages long even with name calling. WHY???? Because the mods agree with the original posts?