"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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80% of women are sleeping with 20% of men.

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Who was it that said "Lies, Damned Lies and Statistics....!" Twain, I think. Thats the beauty of them: you can make of them what you will. Make them imply anything at all...but mostly, they just keep people from going out and taking chances....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I vote with espi!! I'm 5'9 and just a normal guy. But I know a couple women who would say I'm no where near average. Who cares about some stat. Does that hold you back from....anything? Why?
 

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No they're not. These women put on an illusion man. Sure they get offered sex by tons of men but it's RARELY by the man they want and it's even more rare that it's on their preferred terms. Most these broads walk around life completely depressed and lost just hoping, and I mean hoping that some prince charming comes along and saves them from their apathy in life. Furthermore so many of them are brainwashed to believe that a long-term relationship is the pinnacle of success that when they go awhile without one they feel inadequate unlike us men. B*tches have as much power as you give them man. Do you seriously believe only 20 percent of men are screwing?? Come on now, sex is a natural thing and we're all the product of sex so you're telling me 20 percent of all men from the past fathered this entire generation also?

Of course the guys who get it, get more variety of women. This is true but honestly a lot of women are just like men, have the same fears and dreams and deal with the same anxiety or feelings of not having the desired amount of attention from the opposite sex. Why do you think ugly women idolize beautiful women so? They know that these women are getting what they can't male attention. Just take a chance to listen to them talk in a group, all they are talking about is dudes, fvcking, and make-up to attract more dudes, and the prettiest one is almost always the center-piece of the group.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ArcBound said:
Let's say the good ole 20-80% rule is correct, and that women value looks as much as men do, (though I don't believe it's actually that high, but that's another thread entirely).

Let's look at the facts:
http://win.niddk.nih.gov/statistics/index.htm

74% percent of men are overweight or obese.

If you are not overweight or obese you are BY DEFAULT in the top 26% of men by looks. That's right, just by not being fat you are in the top 26%.

Add some muscle, a little bit of style and good wardrobe choice, and game and you are easily in that 20% range.

I'm going to have to ask the same question Fatal Jay is asking.
74% of men ages 20 and OLDER are overweight or obese. My overweight father and uncles are included in those statistics even though they are married. What is the range for men between 20-30 years old? How many guys are lean and skinny until their 30s 40s 50s...

I don't mean to nit pick but around campus it's around 60/40 for skinny vs overweight MEN and that may be generous. Last party I was at I can't remember seeing a single overweight guy.
 

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Plenty of fat dudes get puss, sometimes even more than skinny guys.

Being skinny by itself is a disadvantage unless you're tall and/or really toned and/or have pretty boy looks.

But it depends on context.

A small guy with a big gut - ugly.

An overweight but large framed stocky guy - often scores like mofo while smaller lean guys scratch their heads in confusion.

I'm not saying I agree with this. I'm all about staying skinny. In just reporting what I observe.
 

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Sometimes women are attracted to a guy simply because he's BIG, not because of some kind of model aesthetic pretty boy look.

He might a really tall guy with a face like S h rek or a large stocky guy that looks "fat" by men's standards. Yet women can find these guys attractive or even hot because of the dominance thing.

Men mistakenly look at these guys from a purely AESTHETIC point of view and conclude that "See? He's ugly. Women aren't that into looks." It must be his "personality or game" lol. Umm no.

In reality, women are into looks big time, but view looks differently than most men.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Plenty of fat dudes get puss, sometimes even more than skinny guys.

Being skinny by itself is a disadvantage unless you're tall and/or really toned and/or have pretty boy looks.

But it depends on context.

A small guy with a big gut - ugly.

An overweight but large framed stocky guy - often scores like mofo lol.
Thats true, the "strong fat guy" type gets much more attention from girls than the skinny guy unless a decent height compensate for it.

Given the same height, the strong fat guy wins, by strong fat guy I mean the well built guy with a large belly not just some random fat guy.

I mean this http://thehealthybear.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/power-lifter.jpg

definitely beat

this: http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lSyB-TI3Ha4/TWDeUS0I1QI/AAAAAAAAABA/akSq0fGGHIE/s1600/skinny+guy.jpg

Images are taken randomly on google, no idea who those guys are.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Thats true, the "strong fat guy" type gets much more attention from girls than the skinny guy unless a decent height compensate for it.

Given the same height, the strong fat guy wins, by strong fat guy I mean the well built guy with a large belly not just some random fat guy.

I mean this http://thehealthybear.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/power-lifter.jpg

definitely beat

this: http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lSyB-TI3Ha4/TWDeUS0I1QI/AAAAAAAAABA/akSq0fGGHIE/s1600/skinny+guy.jpg

Images are taken randomly on google, no idea who those guys are.
Agreed. A stocky guy who is strong and/or athletic would kill it with the ladies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joe henny said:
No they're not. These women put on an illusion man. Sure they get offered sex by tons of men but it's RARELY by the man they want and it's even more rare that it's on their preferred terms. Most these broads walk around life completely depressed and lost just hoping, and I mean hoping that some prince charming comes along and saves them from their apathy in life.
How about Disney do a story about the guy being saved from daily drudgery by a smoking hot chick with a big rack, who sticks by him, and karate kicks the arses of the gangs of girls who resent him and try to ruin his life for being ugly and vulnerable, rather than pander to the parents who buy the princess sh1t from the Disney store?! Greenlight that movie, that would be awesome!

In all seriousness, what Who Dares Wins put on the earlier thread about looks is closer to reality.
 
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