"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

8 Ways To Get Ready For A Date With A Hot Girl

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
Here are eight golden tips on how to get ready for a date with a hot lady

1. Good Hygiene- make sure that you don’t have hair coming out of your nose and to take a shower before your date. I always try to look in the mirror to make sure I look good before a date.

2. Color Coordination- I know we all have different styles but you gotta match. If your going to wear black shoes, wear black socks. You wouldn’t believe how many people wear white socks with black shoes its sad to watch.

3. Accessories- shades and watches are nice accessories to bring out on a date. Don’t wear a cheap watch get something nice. Guess watches are really good and you can get one for under a hundred dollars.

4. Fragrances- know the difference between daytime and nighttime cologne. Dolce and Gabanna is a good nighttime fragrance, and Aqua Di Gio by Armani is a good daytime fragrance. Ask girls opinions on different types of colognes and build up a collection of them.

5. Attire- I like to ask girls out on a date to the mall where they can help me pick out clothes. Express is a good store to shop at that has really nice dress shirts (1mx shirt). I know not everyone shops at Express so whatever style fits you right have a hot girl take you to the store you want to shop at. If you don’t know any hot girls, then ask one at the store, they will be sure to help.

6. Cologne Technique- there is a good technique on how to spray on your cologne. Since your body produces phernomenes, you don’t have to spray it all over your shirt. Spray on your hands then rub the cologne on your neck, back of ear, (she’ll smell when she’s kissing you :)) and on the bottom of your wrists. These are all spots where the lady will come into contact with throughout the date. Too much cologne is a bad thing so never spray on to much.

7. Relaxation- I know for some of you who are starting out a date could be nerve wracking for you. Make sure to stay relaxed because women can read your body language. I like to clear my mind and not thing about the date too much and keep focused on macking when the time comes for the date. The more dates you go on the less nervous you will be around women.

8. Open-mind- make sure to go on the date with an open mind. Anything can go on during a date so being open minded will make it easier to deal with the date. Open minded people have an easier time striking conversation due to their ability to talk about anything. A close minded person will make a date more boring. The key here is to keep things stimulating.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

onyx

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2004
Messages
360
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
UK
My conversations are great on first dates. I just drop in questions like do you get heavy flow? and when was the last time you shaved you front bum?
 

On Point

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 24, 2007
Messages
140
Reaction score
2
I don't think the brand of clothes you wear matters that much. If some chick wasn't feeling me because my shirt cost less than $100 I'd next her in a second. It is important to get something with a good cut and decent fabric and style.

If you don't look good in a $40 shirt the problem isn't the shirt.
 

Master Bates

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2007
Messages
1,001
Reaction score
10
wutangfinancial said:
Express nice? Depends on where you live. In a metropolitan city, Express is laughable. Hugo Boss is barely passable. Try Missoni, Armani, Prada, etc. For going out jeans, check out Seven Jeans, Paper Denim, etc. for something a litte hip. Shoes, on the lower end I like Ecco and on on the higher end Bruno Magli and Salvatore Fergamo.
Are you God's joke character? What the hell kind of people are you interacting with who think Express is "laughable", Boss is "barely acceptable" and you need to spend $100-200 on a pair of jeans that barely look any better than $30-50 jeans when you look around hard enough? Not only that, but what the hell are they doing looking at the tags on your clothing? I have shirts from Express that look no different from clothing a lot more expensive than it. No one's going to tell just by looking at them. And if they ask what brand it is, I say "get lost homo".

This along with the height thing.......you got some real issues, dude.
 

onyx

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2004
Messages
360
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
UK
My clothes are quite cheap. The most expensive thing I own is my watch. My clothes are like mid range price..shoes are probably up there with most expensive as well, but I like to have nice stylish shoes. The clothes I wear are like no big brand name, but they fit the style every one wears.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Suicide

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 9, 2004
Messages
247
Reaction score
2
Location
Denver
bachelor said:
6. Cologne Technique- there is a good technique on how to spray on your cologne. Since your body produces phernomenes, you don’t have to spray it all over your shirt. Spray on your hands then rub the cologne on your neck, back of ear, (she’ll smell when she’s kissing you :)) and on the bottom of your wrists. These are all spots where the lady will come into contact with throughout the date. Too much cologne is a bad thing so never spray on to much.
Dude, you should NEVER rub cologne on with your hands, it can alter the scent.
 

KnockoutJM

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2007
Messages
168
Reaction score
1
Location
Rhode Island
I like seven, and AG, and Buffalo jeans. Ive never been rejected for not having nice clothes, but i have gotten complements on them when girls look at the back pockets.

I wear Lacoste cologne, all 3 fragrances smell good to me, and have received complements on them, They arent overpowering, and are more of an anytime fragrance.

Always have Clean Shoes/sneakers. For the occasion.

Accessories are also very important, the watch, belt, necklace, armband etc. whatever helps you look different.

Dont expect anything from the date, just go into it open trying to have a good time, and dont get nervous, especially dont show it by asking questions if she is enjoying herself, or if you can get her anything.. Odds are, if you are having fun, she is having fun.. Just read her out, and be spontaneous
 

belividere

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2005
Messages
956
Reaction score
5
Age
47
I shop at goodwill, shave once a week (at the absolute most), forget to wear deodorant, gave up on underwear, am two months past due for a haircut, probably have a unibrow, and drive a ****ty car.

That said if a hot girl judges me based on material goods then good riddance. I'm to busy in my own life to spend an hour getting ready, multiple hours shopping (not counting hundreds of wasted dollars trying to impress girls with the clothes that I bought), and hours trying to keep up with fashion trends that will be gone tomorrow.

Basing your attractiveness on material possessions will lead to failure over an over again. Not all hot girls look for these things in a guy. Being able to plan a date, make a date enjoyable (and memorable), and show your balls during that first date are much more important. If you need a label to prove that your worth dating you should be considering what types of girls your dating. Also, what types of girls are dumping you to go off with the guy who has the next best fad clothing.
 

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
FORGET CLOTHES, COLOGNE----------SHEESH

DHV-demonstrate higher value is not just accessorizing your apparel, it's about your attitude, your body language, vone tone, flirting with other women AND acting like you are the prize to win over........not the hottie.
 

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
belividere said:
I shop at goodwill, shave once a week (at the absolute most), forget to wear deodorant, gave up on underwear, am two months past due for a haircut, probably have a unibrow, and drive a ****ty car.

That said if a hot girl judges me based on material goods then good riddance. I'm to busy in my own life to spend an hour getting ready, multiple hours shopping (not counting hundreds of wasted dollars trying to impress girls with the clothes that I bought), and hours trying to keep up with fashion trends that will be gone tomorrow.

Basing your attractiveness on material possessions will lead to failure over an over again. Not all hot girls look for these things in a guy. Being able to plan a date, make a date enjoyable (and memorable), and show your balls during that first date are much more important. If you need a label to prove that your worth dating you should be considering what types of girls your dating. Also, what types of girls are dumping you to go off with the guy who has the next best fad clothing.
Alpha males compete for the best women. If you think you can pull smelling like ass, and looking like crap then thats your call. I like to look and feel good :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Willis

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2007
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
For me, i dont like dates cause they are to akward. And dont really feel like paying for somethin i dont want to do like eating with her, or sittin next to her while i watch a movie, i rather take tha money that i would use 4 a date and buy clothes or sneakers but thats jus me.
 

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
Willis said:
For me, i dont like dates cause they are to akward. And dont really feel like paying for somethin i dont want to do like eating with her, or sittin next to her while i watch a movie, i rather take tha money that i would use 4 a date and buy clothes or sneakers but thats jus me.
Yes, you make a valid point about dates. However, you gotta switch things up I mean do you expect to bring a girl to your place everyday of the week? Going to clubs is cool but really good looking girls like to be stimulated. I personally like the variety in going on dates and switching things up. Thats just me though!
 

Willis

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2007
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
"Yes, you make a valid point about dates. However, you gotta switch things up I mean do you expect to bring a girl to your place everyday of the week? Going to clubs is cool but really good looking girls like to be stimulated. I personally like the variety in going on dates and switching things up. Thats just me though"

who said i went to clubs or any of the stuff your talkin about. im saying that being anywhere and doin anything with a chick makes me uncomfortable, so why would i force it?
especially when i could be doing **** that i like. but if u like that type of stuff like "switching up" or whatever, do u. and im not knockin your statement or knockin dates but im my perspective, Y go on a date with her?
i dont like dates or chillin with girls anyway.

P.S. clubs aint sh!t
 

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
wutangfinancial said:
I think there should be two forums here...one for guys who actually get/ want to get hot girls, and another for self-deluded buttholes who think that dressing like crap, being overweight, broke and ugly are not issues.

Given genetics, your goal is to maximize your potential. I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm not gonna let myself look like Michael Moore, either.

Honestly, what hot girl doesn't care about anything relating to the physical world and is purely attracted to men on metaphysical grounds?
RIGHT ON WU TANG
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Willis

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2007
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
"I think there should be two forums here...one for guys who actually get/ want to get hot girls, and another for self-deluded buttholes who think that dressing like crap, being overweight, broke and ugly are not issues"

What the hell? who said anything about this stuff? Who?
 

belividere

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 6, 2005
Messages
956
Reaction score
5
Age
47
wutangfinancial said:
I think there should be two forums here...one for guys who actually get/ want to get hot girls, and another for self-deluded buttholes who think that dressing like crap, being overweight, broke and ugly are not issues.

Given genetics, your goal is to maximize your potential. I'm not Brad Pitt, but I'm not gonna let myself look like Michael Moore, either.

Honestly, what hot girl doesn't care about anything relating to the physical world and is purely attracted to men on metaphysical grounds?
I think there should be two forums here as well. Those who have and those who haven't. It is obvious who hasn't had experience and who has. Case in point treating a date with a hot girl as stereotypically hot and trying to impress her with materialistic goods. What hot girl worth dating does not care about personality? Sure looking good matters, I never said otherwise, but do you have to be over the top and dressed in $3000 outfits to not make her see your attitude or "metaphysical" side?

I've been involved in pic threads before and shown that my dirty, smelly self can pick up good looking girls. I'm not advocating another thread since it turned into hater fest 05 but since that thread I can say that I've granted a new respect, and lost old respect, for certain posters from what I saw. I would love to see this whole new crop of "dress to impress" guys show pics of girls that they actually were dating (not fake club pics). And if possible relate them to the 8 ways to get ready for a date from this thread.
 

BadAssMoFo

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2006
Messages
55
Reaction score
0
metrosexuals compete with the women to see who can be more of a pu**y.

if that's your style, and it works without trying to make it work..go for it.


no woman worth my time is going to be judging my shirt's pricetag..


she's going to be judging my character via my actions, words, etc. and so forth.

if you like being a pretty boy..go for it..but only if it comes naturally to you.
 

bachelor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2007
Messages
207
Reaction score
5
belividere said:
I think there should be two forums here as well. Those who have and those who haven't. It is obvious who hasn't had experience and who has. Case in point treating a date with a hot girl as stereotypically hot and trying to impress her with materialistic goods. What hot girl worth dating does not care about personality? Sure looking good matters, I never said otherwise, but do you have to be over the top and dressed in $3000 outfits to not make her see your attitude or "metaphysical" side?

I've been involved in pic threads before and shown that my dirty, smelly self can pick up good looking girls. I'm not advocating another thread since it turned into hater fest 05 but since that thread I can say that I've granted a new respect, and lost old respect, for certain posters from what I saw. I would love to see this whole new crop of "dress to impress" guys show pics of girls that they actually were dating (not fake club pics). And if possible relate them to the 8 ways to get ready for a date from this thread.
You took my post out of context. I'm not saying you have to wear certain clothes to pull girls. What you do need is style. This is the foundation of how I built my game. It worked for me and itll work for others too.
 
Top