"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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8/5/3 Squat Benchpress Deadlift Journal

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Goal is to hit 950 combined on all three lifts by August 10.
Previously had 925 combined, at 30 pounds more body weight. After dieting down, I want to get my strength back up.

Previous PRs:
Bench 230
Dead 390
Squat 305
Total 925.

Program:
Day 1: 5x5 all lifts
Day 2: 3x8 all lifts
Day 3: 8x3 all lifts
Repeat!

Squat, Deadlift, Bench Press only. All lifts done powerlifter style, and totally raw. Squats below parallel or they don't count, bench press touches the chest or it doesn't count. No straps no braces no shirts no boards no boxes. Chalk is OK.

I lift Monday Wednesday Friday and swim or play basketball for cardio on every off-day.

Day 1: 5x5
Dead: 225, 245, 265 x 3
Bench: 150, 160, 165 x 3 - God this **** felt way harder than it should have.
Squat: 185, 195, 185 x 3

Day 2: 3x8
Dead: 245 x 3
Bench: 155 x 2, 155 Fail 6 reps
Squat: 165 x 3 - This sucks but it was all I could do

Day 3: Missed because the ****ing gym closed. Ran 10 100m sprints instead, with .5 mile warm up and cool down.

Day 4: 5x5
Dead: 225, 245, 255, 275 x 2
Bench: 155, 165, 175 x 3
Squat: 165, 175, 185, 195, 205
God this felt so much better, glad I'm getting back into this.

Day 5: 3x8
Dead: 275 x 3
Bench: 155 x 3 finished it this time, moving up next week.
Squat: 195 x 3 - Huge improvement and I feel I could do more. 205 next week.


This is my thread. Feel free to ask questions, share your own progress, comment, criticize, or congratulate. Or do nothing. I'm going to keep posting either way.

All I have to say after cutting weight for 3 months is GOD DAMN it feels good to be lifting heavy **** again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think there a lot more effective ways to set up a routine to reach your goals, let me know if you interested.
 

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Thanks for the offer. There just might be! I like this one though. It makes me get big. And I ****ing love lifting heavy weights. Don't much like lifting small ones...
 

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EFFORT said:
I think there a lot more effective ways to set up a routine to reach your goals, let me know if you interested.
Ditto x 1000.
 

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If the guy can DL 390, he doesn't need anyones help on here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you warming up and slowly creeping up to the weight you posted or do you start out with hundreds of pounds on the bar ??
 

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Furyguy said:
Thanks for the offer. There just might be! I like this one though. It makes me get big. And I ****ing love lifting heavy weights. Don't much like lifting small ones...
lol you would actually be lifting heavier weights, but its up to you I don't want to waste my time helping someone that doesn't want it so let me know.
 

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S.Y.L said:
If the guy can DL 390, he doesn't need anyones help on here.
I've come across a lot of different people that can ignorantly go into a gym wearing jeans, no diet reigmen, no coherent routine, no concept of weighting training while sleep deprived and put up some big numbers. Even though there numbers are big doesn't mean they can't benefit from doing things correctly.

OPs routine implies he's missed some things.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Are you warming up and slowly creeping up to the weight you posted or do you start out with hundreds of pounds on the bar ??
Definitely some warm-up sets to get in the groove. Empty bar, then throw some light weight on there, then start to get into it.

If you've ever read up on Reg Park's training methods, that's what I'm following. The first two sets are considered warm-ups. So Benching for 5 sets of 150, 165, 175, 175, 175, the first two sets at 150 and 165 are considered warm-up.

Anyways, here's basically what I'm going off of if you're interested.
http://www.tmuscle.com/free_online_article/sports_body_training_performance/reg_parks_5x5_program
 

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Day 6: First day actually doing the 8x3. Felt damn good.

Squat: 175, 185, 195, 205x5
Bench: 135, 155, 175, 185x5
Dead: 225, 255, 285, 300x5

I got in there mad hungover but still managed to make it a good session. I am sore as **** and it feels great. Glad my numbers are climbing again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to take a day off between lifts. You could probably do the bench press in between the other two.

I think the deadlift is overrated, except for competition. I used to just do the bench and squats for the big bulk exercises (did lots of other smaller weight exercises.)
 

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Fury guy, nice goals bro! What's your height and weight? I'd definitely agree w/ taking some time off between your lift days. In my opinion its also good to incorporate some more core stuff in with your routine. I think core strength is a vastly under-rated aspect of having high big 3 lift totals. Especially when it comes to a high squat and deadlift.

Do you do any olympic lifting?
 
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