"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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When i look in the mirror the evening with the light on and i stand so the light hits me, i think i actuly look good (topless) but when i stand in front of the light so it does ot hit my chest and stomach i do not like how i look. The mirror im asuming does not look quite like rela life, so if i look good in brighter light do you think i will most lightly genraly look good even with less light when some one else is looking at me as apose to looking at a mirror?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LordBrian

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kinda same deal with me. When the light is coming from above i look real strong... i think its because of the shadows that form below each muscle that seems to give the apearance that it is bigger.
 

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lighting makes you look more defined than you really are (under natural light), especially with your abs

a few months ago i looked shyt without the light, but after developing my chest and lats, i'm looking much better.
 
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