7 things you should look for in a girl when you dated her 3-5 times

[DJ_Dork]

Here is a list of 7 things to look for in a girl when dating.. this will help some of us to weed those psycho girls out quick. Some girls will have 1-2 of these.. but here's a good score. The first four on the list has a score of 1 each, the next 3 on the list have a score of 2. If she has a score of 1-2... should be considered normal.. 3 would be borderline.. anything more than that RUN. She is NOT worth it.

An abusive romantic relationship, -1
An abusive relationship with immediate family, -1
A bad relationship with her father/mother, -1
Financial problems, -1
Psychiatric problems, - 2
Untreated chemical addition, even a legal addiction, or -2
Dramatic bickering with her friends. -2

Now why the first four just 1 point? The first four many of us have had that. The next 3 is something that is more serious. Anyone who has psychiatric problems will obviously give you a lot of BS. Anyone who is a pothead/alcoholic will have problems. Anyone who doesn't get along with friends and screams at them will give you a lot of drama.

For those who don't know if a girl has psychiatric problems.. If she acts cold/hot often or is confused about relationship status every 1-2 weeks - Yeah she's got mental probs.

Score yourself too - if you yourself have a score of 4, consider yourself undateable for now and fix yourself.

 

[imnexthere]

Not a bad post at all but I disagree with you about the drug/alcohol problems one. That should be a 3 for alcohol and a 4 for illegal/perscription drugs (yeah including pot).

People who abuse drugs are very very screwed up and may end up dragging you into situations you dont want to be anywhere near.

Occasionally using alcohol or pot is not a big deal. I would define problem as not being able to stop anytime and still feel/act normal.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Accurate but why wait until the third or fifth date? Why not qualify her sooner so as not to waste time or effort?