SeymourCake
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Step 1: Prep Work
You need to set yourself up for success. Do you have a ****ing job? If not that's the first step to being a happy huamn being lol (inb4 discussion about capitalism). Are you not very intelligent? Start reading the news and studying science courses. (but don't be a condescending ACKHCHUALLY faggot about things you know. be respectful). Do you have goals in life and are you actively pursuing them? The biggest turnoff to a woman, more than being short or fat, is having no ambition. That's what women call a loser. Are you in shape and do you do something regularly to maintain your fitness? It's very attractive to potential mates if you regularly go to a gym or some sort of fitness class, hiking, **** even going for regular walks. If you just sit on your ass at home you aren't going to have much of a chance unless you are blessed with good genetics and metabolism (which, one day, you will lose, as you age in your sedentary life). Are you funny? If not, practice! Try to make everyone you meet laugh. Take note of what gets laughs and what gets awkward silences. How is your hygiene? Are you well-groomed? How are your fingernails, hair, facial hair (including eyebrows. monobrow = virgin for life), and teeth? Got nasty dry cracked elbows and heels? Sand that callus off and lotion that ****. Women notice this ****. Do you have neck hair? Get that **** waxed. Got a jungle downstairs? Trim that **** with clippers on a 0 setting. Brush your mother****ing teeth twice a day unless you want to date toothless meth heads. Drink more water and stop drinking soda you fat ****. Not only will all this **** make you a more attractive mate, but it will make you happy and confident, which people pick up on.
Step 2: Set and Setting
You aren't going to get laid chilling at a nursing home or a gas station. You need to put yourself where the cute ladies are. I'm finishing up my Bachelor's degree, and guess what I did every time I started a new class? I scoped all the other students for the hottest girl and walked up and sat right next to her. A couple days into the class I would start joking and talking with her (NOT FLIRTING YET) until we develop a light rapport. Eventually I ask to get her number/facebook messenger/instagram/snapchat (you better get your tech game up to par my friend. ladies love all these new digital chat programs. you should be ready to chat on every one of them). Also if you are a professional of any kind it's pretty boss to give a chick your business card. Makes you stand the **** out from the losers always hitting on her. Anyway from the initial contact you just say right in your first conversation "would you want to chill some time?" don't make it any more formal/intimate/eager than that. Don't send a ****ing smiley face or beat around the bush or tack on an awkward "haha". Just calmly ask her if she wants to hang out or chill, like you would to a fellow man. At this point you are merely acquaintances and you should not convey anything else. If she expresses interest, simply ask "what times are you free? I'm usually free X Y and Z nights." if it doesn't work from there, then an economics phenomenon known as Sunk Cost has taken place and you need to stop communicating. Girls are actually quite cunning and can sense if you are trying to pressure them. Girls haaaaaaaaaaate feeling pressured. They like to feel 100% in control of their own choices. Just make yourself an enticing choice. Literally every college class I have ever taken, I have been the guy who's the closest classmate friend of the hottest chick. And the other dudes mean mug me. Anyway other than mackin' on cuties at school, if you aren't a student, make friends who are. Colleges are THE number 1 place to get laid. Otherwise join some sort of outdoors activity group, or go to the park/hiking trail where young fit people go. Join a kayaking club, canyoneering club, whatever the **** you think would be cool to do. Just place yourself in proximity to the attractive women. This is not optional, it is a mandatory step. The odds of randomly encountering a mate without planning your set and setting are extremely low, like winning the lottery probably.
Step 3: First Date - Prep Work
So odds are, this girl isn't stupid. She knows your ultimate goals with her. Her mom and dad warned her about boys like you, so you need to reassure her that you will be a good choice. Think of this like a job interview. She is forming her view of you and this is your chance to make a really good first impression. For example, one girl that I met up with, I was so ****ing thirsty for her, she had amazing tits and the prettiest smile I've seen in years. For our first date I showed up in an $80 button up dress shirt, dress shoes, really nice jeans, freshly waxed, trimmed, shaved, brushed, I even used a drop of beard oil and that **** made my beard glisten like ambrosia. She was visibly impressed, I could see it on her face. She wasn't dressed up to my level and she was also visibly shy and embarrassed she hadn't worn something nicer (but she still looked great). She kept apologizing for not wearing a nicer top and I just kept telling her she looked great. It made her blush (making women blush is a REALLY GOOD THING!) Note I didn't go full retard and wear a tie or vest or god forbid a trillby or something lmao. Just a nice shirt and shoes. Oh and a belt. But by the next morning we had ****ed 4 times.
You need to set yourself up for success. Do you have a ****ing job? If not that's the first step to being a happy huamn being lol (inb4 discussion about capitalism). Are you not very intelligent? Start reading the news and studying science courses. (but don't be a condescending ACKHCHUALLY faggot about things you know. be respectful). Do you have goals in life and are you actively pursuing them? The biggest turnoff to a woman, more than being short or fat, is having no ambition. That's what women call a loser. Are you in shape and do you do something regularly to maintain your fitness? It's very attractive to potential mates if you regularly go to a gym or some sort of fitness class, hiking, **** even going for regular walks. If you just sit on your ass at home you aren't going to have much of a chance unless you are blessed with good genetics and metabolism (which, one day, you will lose, as you age in your sedentary life). Are you funny? If not, practice! Try to make everyone you meet laugh. Take note of what gets laughs and what gets awkward silences. How is your hygiene? Are you well-groomed? How are your fingernails, hair, facial hair (including eyebrows. monobrow = virgin for life), and teeth? Got nasty dry cracked elbows and heels? Sand that callus off and lotion that ****. Women notice this ****. Do you have neck hair? Get that **** waxed. Got a jungle downstairs? Trim that **** with clippers on a 0 setting. Brush your mother****ing teeth twice a day unless you want to date toothless meth heads. Drink more water and stop drinking soda you fat ****. Not only will all this **** make you a more attractive mate, but it will make you happy and confident, which people pick up on.
Step 2: Set and Setting
You aren't going to get laid chilling at a nursing home or a gas station. You need to put yourself where the cute ladies are. I'm finishing up my Bachelor's degree, and guess what I did every time I started a new class? I scoped all the other students for the hottest girl and walked up and sat right next to her. A couple days into the class I would start joking and talking with her (NOT FLIRTING YET) until we develop a light rapport. Eventually I ask to get her number/facebook messenger/instagram/snapchat (you better get your tech game up to par my friend. ladies love all these new digital chat programs. you should be ready to chat on every one of them). Also if you are a professional of any kind it's pretty boss to give a chick your business card. Makes you stand the **** out from the losers always hitting on her. Anyway from the initial contact you just say right in your first conversation "would you want to chill some time?" don't make it any more formal/intimate/eager than that. Don't send a ****ing smiley face or beat around the bush or tack on an awkward "haha". Just calmly ask her if she wants to hang out or chill, like you would to a fellow man. At this point you are merely acquaintances and you should not convey anything else. If she expresses interest, simply ask "what times are you free? I'm usually free X Y and Z nights." if it doesn't work from there, then an economics phenomenon known as Sunk Cost has taken place and you need to stop communicating. Girls are actually quite cunning and can sense if you are trying to pressure them. Girls haaaaaaaaaaate feeling pressured. They like to feel 100% in control of their own choices. Just make yourself an enticing choice. Literally every college class I have ever taken, I have been the guy who's the closest classmate friend of the hottest chick. And the other dudes mean mug me. Anyway other than mackin' on cuties at school, if you aren't a student, make friends who are. Colleges are THE number 1 place to get laid. Otherwise join some sort of outdoors activity group, or go to the park/hiking trail where young fit people go. Join a kayaking club, canyoneering club, whatever the **** you think would be cool to do. Just place yourself in proximity to the attractive women. This is not optional, it is a mandatory step. The odds of randomly encountering a mate without planning your set and setting are extremely low, like winning the lottery probably.
Step 3: First Date - Prep Work
So odds are, this girl isn't stupid. She knows your ultimate goals with her. Her mom and dad warned her about boys like you, so you need to reassure her that you will be a good choice. Think of this like a job interview. She is forming her view of you and this is your chance to make a really good first impression. For example, one girl that I met up with, I was so ****ing thirsty for her, she had amazing tits and the prettiest smile I've seen in years. For our first date I showed up in an $80 button up dress shirt, dress shoes, really nice jeans, freshly waxed, trimmed, shaved, brushed, I even used a drop of beard oil and that **** made my beard glisten like ambrosia. She was visibly impressed, I could see it on her face. She wasn't dressed up to my level and she was also visibly shy and embarrassed she hadn't worn something nicer (but she still looked great). She kept apologizing for not wearing a nicer top and I just kept telling her she looked great. It made her blush (making women blush is a REALLY GOOD THING!) Note I didn't go full retard and wear a tie or vest or god forbid a trillby or something lmao. Just a nice shirt and shoes. Oh and a belt. But by the next morning we had ****ed 4 times.