"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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7 months in the gym - before and after

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before:



after:



144 lbs summer 2006 (doctor's office records, race shape tho. gained first 15 lbs quick in a month)
172 lbs summer 2007

started lifting around January 07.

Routine looked like this following 3x8 for each exercise. Moved up 5-15 lbs every week until I reached plateaus:

Mon - Squats, flat bench, upright rows, barbell rows, tricep and abs iso stuff
tues - deadlifts, pullups/chinups, standing military press (10x3), bicep and abs iso stuff
fri - squats (pyramid to weight), incline bench, heavy barbell and cable rows, tricep and abs iso stuff

cardio 2-3x/week. run for 30-40 mins. diet ~3200 cals/day, mostly protein, whole grain carbs, oatmeal, grilled chicken, greens, etc

I'm gonna try and hit 180 then cut down for next summer. if i don't get there im gonna cut regardless... im pretty happy with the results.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ViciousDADogg

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Yea.. Sun o ma bish. I'm 200ish at 5'11".. I'm trying to get to around your NOW weight. But maybe I have less to go that I though, to 180 instead of 170.. Because, you look skinny!!

I cut off any exercise for more than 2 months now, as I was pedaling myself to fame.

Damn boy. Your post made me want to get back into my loosing weight mode. I only have 20 or 30 lbs to go until my tits are gone, and until my love handles are gone. It's totally doable in 2 months.

How tall are you?
 

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still look real skinny but least you making the effort. I should think, you should have gained alot more in 7 months though
 

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hold up just realised
..ur gunna cut down? theres nothing to cut, the last 7 months will have been pointless because you'll most likely be losing your gains
 

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7 months and 28 lbs. average of 4 lbs a month, about a pound a week. Bodyfat stayed roughly the same. went up 1 or 2% I'm estimating because it might just be me, but my rolls seem a tad thicker haha. not too much tho. I'd like to lower my bodyfat a little, but not before I put on a solid 10 more lbs. should take about another 6 months to a year depending how everything works out at school

I'm 5'11

lol do i really look skinny in those last 2 pics?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ViciousDADogg

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Yea... Like on a prison yard there are guys that look massive and are about your weight. But you look like they killed you in black hawk down. I though I'd look fatter or less kinnier than you at that weight. But since now I see you that skinny, I'm going there. Should only take 2 to 3 months.


But... ON second thought you're about the same complexion as 2pac, @165. A bit taller though, and less body fat. It must be genetics.
 
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