7 Laws of Attraction

[tmpgstx]

1st Law of Attraction: There are two types of attraction. Strong and natural. Strong is subconscience and natural is conscience.

2nd Law of Attraction: Both sexes know within the first minute of seeing each other if there is a strong attraction.

3rd Law of Attraction: Strong attraction is the foundation for the most full-filling long-lasting relationships.

4th Law of Attraction: Natural attraction can be developed into strong attraction if both persons are mature.

5th Law of Attraction: If neither natural or strong attractions are present, it never will be, no matter how much 'game' someone has.

6th Law of Attraction: Attraction that is mutual, stays mutual if neither person turns the other person off.

7th Law of Attraction: A person can be naturally attracted to more than one person at a time, but strong attraction is often rare and thus only to one person at a time.

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Natural attraction is conscience attraction, meaning one person relates to another thru common ground. They are not physically repulsive and have some good characteristics that the other person finds qualitative. Women and men that are friends can develope strong attraction based on this natural attraction by being more intimate.

Strong atttraction is 'gut' level attraction. It's when you see someone that gives you a deep down excited feeling .. intoxicating feeling, that when being around that person can make the Sun shine so to speak.

Think about your own situation. Do you know people you're naturally attracted to? These are people that you would give a chance given the conditions are right.

Do you know people you have a 'gut' level attraction to? Do you have it for your current girlfriend? Did you settle?

Good questions to ask yourself. Gut level between two people mutually is the best form of attraction, as it builds the strongest foundation for long term relationships and marriage.

The important thing to know is that the attraction is already there with both types of attraction immediately (more immedately with strong attraction, instantly). If it is strong, be yourself and the person will find everything you do great. Your job is to not turn her off, and the reverse is true if you have strong attraction to her also.

Alot of people don't realize that they were put in the friends zone immedately before even opening their mouth. It's because there is no 'gut' level attraction, works the same for both sexes. It's nothing you said or did .. could have the best game out there, but it won't get you anywhere with that person.

Looks DO play a big part for both sexes. It is a fact. If you're overweight - need to work out. You can also enhance your perceived 'maleness' which is important to women, especially the more feminine women. Being a 'pretty boy' will get you numerous short-term relationships, because pretty-boys do not have alot of 'maleness', whereas a more handsome (and less pretty and cute so to speak), guy will land a more feminine female for a long term relationship.

Read the page below and the following page by clicking next. It will show you how a woman's attraction really works in terms of 'maleness' and display. From this, you can enhance your maleness. Check it out.

http://www.seducingwomen101.com/dag/dag7.html

 

[MetalFortress]

geesh, I wish I read this 5 months ago. -_-

 

[becker]

I couldn't make it through reading that entire article in that link, but based on what I read so far, all I can say is, read away if you want to become some paranoid fool.

 

[tmpgstx]

Becker .. paranoid fool? You call remembering scripts, openers, nag hitting, and a plaithora of other stuff not being paranoid?

This explains attraction at the 'not a choice' level. If you really understand attraction, there is no need to pressure yourself into trying to impress someone or put on an act.

I think it went way over your head.

 

[arq-dj1]

very good literature


very bad practical stuff

 

[ketostix]

I think this post's info is basically OK but, using your your terms, I think a girl can have strong attraction to more than one person. Besides few women seem to act on their strong attraction for a guy. Plus this post doesn't offer anything to explain how you can elicit natural attraction. Really either a girl's attracted to a guy or she's not. If she is it's just a question of the degree of attraction she has. And if you're not "strongly" attracting any girl, what are you to do..throw up your hands I think better luck next life?

 

[arq-dj1]

Originally posted by ketostix
I think this post's info is basically OK but, using your your terms, I think a girl can have strong attraction to more than one person. Besides few women seem to act on their strong attraction for a guy. Plus this post doesn't offer anything to explain how you can elicit natural attraction. Really either a girl's attracted to a guy or she's not. If she is it's just a question of the degree of attraction she has. And if you're not "strongly" attracting any girl, what are you to do..throw up your hands I think better luck next life?

exactly

that's one problem that i have seen here...
ppl who don't look manly, just putting muscles or whatever manly actions won't change the fact that ur not manly trying to act manly

 

[becker]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Becker .. paranoid fool? You call remembering scripts, openers, nag hitting, and a plaithora of other stuff not being paranoid?

This explains attraction at the 'not a choice' level. If you really understand attraction, there is no need to pressure yourself into trying to impress someone or put on an act.

I think it went way over your head.

Sorry, man, I was just venting. First off, I'm not the biggest supporter of everything on this site, and most of the time I go against the rules and things still work out. You can get laid without this site, at least I can. I just suck at getting into LTRs, which I'd rather be in right now than sleep with all these different women all the time. I'm pretty tired of that, as lame as that may sound, and I don't give a crap anyways if it does sound weird, that's the way it is for me at the moment.

Anyways, that was just tough reading to me, so I didn't fancy it. If you give me the nutshell version, I'm sure I'll be much more receptive.

 

[dig it]

I tried to read all that. I really tried.

But it is so long-winded, even while it defidently is so good, its points come across fragmented, and therefore useless.

I'd have to re-write it to make use of it.

Whoever she is, she has a pretty bright brain.

Its not as if she is selling it either. I think she is on a level entirely different to us.

You see, i always had a good few women to pick from. Since doing all this stuff on the site and elsewhere - improving myself - i have had even more.

But ost of that stuff in her novel goes on anyway behind the scenes and you dont notice it.

So the coin falls one way or the other, and you miss some and you get some (those that are doomed from the outset)

And therein lies the drama....because IF you could control that aspect of things with precision, it would be fantastic.

But basically its right. Yet at the same time, for any of us to make use of it, would be difficult. One, way its written.

But two, the vast amount of different masculin/feminine levels in people.

You cant go up and say to yourself, ;ok now i must be a bit less masculine if i want to get wthis girl' if you knew all that stuff and got good at it, because then you would be ruining YOUR integrity, and be exposed as a fraud.

So for me, i actually try to just be myself, improve on myself, become more of a man, whatever, in my own way, so that i can get with a wider rang of girls...

and how do i do that....thru experience.

Best teacher.

But her, she's pretty cluey. It sounds real, feels real, and we may never know if it is real because it seems impossible.

 

[DrSoSuave]

Interesting post, can explain some of my relationships as well as others. Unfortunately two-three of those laws of attraction may never be met in most relationships.

 

[Ricky]

You know I have noticed alot of times the real pretty, feminine cheerleader type girls are with the big but kind of out of shape pig type masculine guys.

I'm neither a big pig nor a pretty boy, so It kind of leaves me to sort out the middle. But I've been having fun and doing well and typically don't hold back on any type of girl I approach.

One trick that helps after you dated alot of women is to find something similar about a girl you want to approach that a previous girl you dated had.

This gives you more confidence. "Hey she looks a bit like Sarah, i'm sure she'd go out with me".

 

[AMF]

Its "conscious" not "conscience".