"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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7-10 meals? ok?

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Sup guys my workouts are going good. I have a question. Is it ok if i eat like a lot of meals in days? For example ill eat like 8am---- then 9:am then like 10:30am---11:00 am---1:30pm, and so on. Its not really in a order, but i eat frequently. I dont eat 6 meals because even though i eat "small meals" it still fills me up sort of fast. Tell me if this is alright.



P.S--i still eat the amount of protein i need to have for muscle repair/growth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eat every 3 hours to avoid your body storing fat (or something) and to feed your muscles.

put it this way: 7 - 10 meals are much better than 3 - 4 for muscle growth.
 

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I believe what you are doing is better than eating 6 meals a day. Im not an expert, but I was under the impression that ideally a person should have a continous supply of food, so thats why they suggest eating 6 small meals is better than eating 3 big meals. As silver said, this is to avoid storing fat....so eating 10 meals is even closer to a completely continous supply of food, which i would think is even better than 6 meals. This is assuming you are eating healthy foods, and not junk food of course.

Just wondering, how do you find time to be eating so many meals?
 

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It is good to eat several smaller meals, because humans have spent more time as hunter-gatherers, 100,000+ years, and relatively little time as farmers, only the last 10,000 years or so. Hunter-gatherers walk and nibble.
 
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It depends how long it takes to digest your last meal. The human stomach digests and empties every 2-3 hours for a normal person. If you have really strong stomach juices and can process a meal very quickly then go for it, othewise you will be dumping a new meal over an existing digesting meal and well.... that's not good.

Have fun spending a lot of time on the can .
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
It is good to eat several smaller meals, because humans have spent more time as hunter-gatherers, 100,000+ years, and relatively little time as farmers, only the last 10,000 years or so. Hunter-gatherers walk and nibble.
Yes. If you eat 3-4 big meals it takes longer to break down.
 

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Originally posted by brucevangeorge
It depends how long it takes to digest your last meal. The human stomach digests and empties every 2-3 hours for a normal person. If you have really strong stomach juices and can process a meal very quickly then go for it, othewise you will be dumping a new meal over an existing digesting meal and well.... that's not good.

Have fun spending a lot of time on the can .
Why isn't it good?

The more meals you give yourself the better. Also, the more your body is being forced to digest the moer effcient it will become, and so it will become faster. Which brings a whole lot of more results.

I recently went to a seminar with Mr natural australia, and he was eating anywhere between 13 and 15 meals a day.
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
eat every 3 hours to avoid your body storing fat (or something) and to feed your muscles.

put it this way: 7 - 10 meals are much better than 3 - 4 for muscle growth.
eeeeeh NO.

Thank you for playing, better luck next time.
 
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Depends on what kind of meal. If he was drinking LIQUID shakes and stuff or taking DIGESTIVE ENZYMES, then maybe. Liquid meals get absorbed so fast its like you ate nothing.

Eat 3 meals a day for a week, then 4 meals a day for a week, and so on. If you just jump into 10 meals, you will fail.

Go ahead and try your plan. If it works I congrajulate you. I've encountered problems with appetite when eating a meal before the previous has been digested. It doesn't sit very well and you feel like ****.

If any of you guys want to try constantly feeding your muscles it's called an IV. Use it.
 

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eeeeeh NO. you for playing, better luck next time.
Care to explain your point properly instead of coming out with 'wiseguy' comments?

:confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If any of you guys want to try constantly feeding your muscles it's called an IV. Use it.
I've got an IV protein drip strapped to my back at all times. It's kinda awkward when sleeping and during sexual acts, but perseverence is a good thing.
 

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I would think as long as your not eating more calories then you can burn before the next meal you are fine.
 
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