"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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6th annual anti approach anixety competition

Gray The Prince

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Hey guys, GTP here and it's Spring so you guys already know it's time for the 6th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition!





For those of you new guys who don't know, I am GTP and I have been running the Anti AA competition for the last five years. Six years ago back when I was 18 and a College Freshman, I tied for 1st place in the original competition started by AAAgent. Due to the overwhelming success, the competition has become an annual thing. However, last year's competition was cut short due to lack of active participation. It became perfectly clear to me that the current generation of posters are not used to being actively challenged and have gotten used to just complaining online without taking any action.

This year, the rules will be a lot stricter, those who don't want to put in the work to improve will be weeded out.

Previous winners

2011- Four way Tie between Myself, Robyn, PrettyboyAJ and Deicide

2012- Roman81

2013- CoachD

2014- LeonSK

2015- No winner, see above why.

Who will be the 2016 champion? We'll see.

Rules are the still the same as always:


1.) Veterans and past winners are allowed to participate but are ineligible to win. Self-explanatory rule and we all know who you are. However, if you want to post tips, encouragement, etc. PLEASE do so.

2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each task/objective. For example if the task starts on Monday then you must post by Sunday 11:59 pm Pacific Time or you get a strike and/or are eliminated.

3.) Encouragement and tips are highly encouraged as a means to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.

4.) Just because you fare well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fare well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.

5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. Even though we have no way of knowing whether or not you are lying, just be a man and accept defeat. Failure is evident on the path to success.

6.) You are to get a phone number if the tasks call you to do so. E-Mail, Facebook, things that aren't phone numbers DO NOT count.
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We will do a two strikes rule. If you fail to meet an objective twice, you are eliminated from the competition no ifs ans or buts. As each round progresses, the tasks will become more and more difficult.


Any questions, comments or concerns, please PM me or post them in this thread. Good luck to you all.


Also if any past winners or veterans want to help with the competition feel free to PM me.

You have until Sunday, April 3 11:59 pm Pacific Time to sign up for this competition.


Participants
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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muzztecafc

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I am in.
I have semi AA as in I will approach girls but I normally walk around and let 10 girls I want to approach past before getting that first approach out
 

Fireballs

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Count me in. I'm fresh out of a 2 year relationship and have never really done approaching before.

Only problem is the base population of the town I live in is 15,000.. slim pickings. Although that number rises to 50,000 in tourist season which is approaching.. lots of backpackers though.

EDIT: F**k! Just realised I can't do it. I work away at sea for 2 weeks at a time then back home for a week off. Oh well.. I'll still do the challenges, just in my own time.
 
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ubercat

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It's going to depend on the rules and time commitment. I did ask if cold approach has a use by date on MM and the consensus was no. I don't think age is an excuse. And I haven't consistently done cold approach just on a rare occasions so tentatively yeah I m in.
 

zinc4

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Count me in. I'm fresh out of a 2 year relationship and have never really done approaching before.

Only problem is the base population of the town I live in is 15,000.. slim pickings. Although that number rises to 50,000 in tourist season which is approaching.. lots of backpackers though.

EDIT: F**k! Just realised I can't do it. I work away at sea for 2 weeks at a time then back home for a week off. Oh well.. I'll still do the challenges, just in my own time.

What's your job?

I'd love to be out at sea for weeks at a time like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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I'm in. It's probably going to be hard for me to win because I work a lot but I will give it a go.
 
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