"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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60's Generation and MLTR's

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Question for ya'll, do you think grown up hippy ladies from the 60's and 70's (say in their mid 40's to early 50's) might now be past the genetic drive towards an LTR and more open to being an FB or part of an MLTR?

Picture one who was part of the free love generation, got married (too young) divorced, has kids who are in college or grown, having raised them on her own so she hasn't had lots of time for other men in her life.

Might some grown up cynicism and natural sexuality make it more likely for them to play the "I'm not looking for a committed LTR but life is too short to stand on the sidelines" game?

Might there just be enough pent up horniness to embrace being an MTLR?

What is the feline psychology here?

Opinions and especially real experiences are welcome.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Short answer, no. Do you have more or fewer options when you are in your fifth or sixth decade? You have less. MLTR might be alright for a woman in her twenties but by these ages they don't queue for nightclubs and they're not going to queue for a man, with the possible exception of Ralph Fiennes.

I haven't met any, but I am willing to be contradicted. Perhaps the lower end of the market?
 
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warning - overgeneralilzation follows

Mid 40's women were born in the early 60s but were too young for the hippie generation. They graduated from high school in about 1978 - 1982, the end of Disco and beginning of Yuppiedom.

These are the origin of "material girls" and many opted for corporate life. Their kids are just now finishing HS and heading to college. It's as easy for us to hook up with her as with her daughter. She raised the girls with much more freedom than her parents gave her. Her parents were born in the 40s and were very different than we have become now.

If you're 25 to 35 and you pay her attention, she will give it up for you really fast.
 
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