"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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60's Generation and MLTR's

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Question for ya'll, do you think grown up hippy ladies from the 60's and 70's (say in their mid 40's to early 50's) might now be past the genetic drive towards an LTR and more open to being an FB or part of an MLTR?

Picture one who was part of the free love generation, got married (too young) divorced, has kids who are in college or grown, having raised them on her own so she hasn't had lots of time for other men in her life.

Might some grown up cynicism and natural sexuality make it more likely for them to play the "I'm not looking for a committed LTR but life is too short to stand on the sidelines" game?

Might there just be enough pent up horniness to embrace being an MTLR?

What is the feline psychology here?

Opinions and especially real experiences are welcome.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Short answer, no. Do you have more or fewer options when you are in your fifth or sixth decade? You have less. MLTR might be alright for a woman in her twenties but by these ages they don't queue for nightclubs and they're not going to queue for a man, with the possible exception of Ralph Fiennes.

I haven't met any, but I am willing to be contradicted. Perhaps the lower end of the market?
 
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warning - overgeneralilzation follows

Mid 40's women were born in the early 60s but were too young for the hippie generation. They graduated from high school in about 1978 - 1982, the end of Disco and beginning of Yuppiedom.

These are the origin of "material girls" and many opted for corporate life. Their kids are just now finishing HS and heading to college. It's as easy for us to hook up with her as with her daughter. She raised the girls with much more freedom than her parents gave her. Her parents were born in the 40s and were very different than we have become now.

If you're 25 to 35 and you pay her attention, she will give it up for you really fast.
 
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