"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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5'11'' 205 lbs.

Stags09

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Ok so im a sophomore at an all guys school and i go there to play football. we are one of the best schools in the country period and everybodys knows are name the thing is i play fullback so im not this litlle skinny 160 5"11" kid i weigh 205 lbs. and climbing and im basically a tank thick neck the works how in the hell do i just approach girls with out them being intimidated and what not. Another thing i have noticed since im not that little lacrosse player kid with the long hair girls just **** on you. man i cant wait till i get to college and girls know what they want and not just this man purse to carry around you know what i mean? And another thing why in the hell do these girls act so damn inmature running around be all loud and **** and laughing smoke a damn joint chill out.
Another thing where can i approach girls besides the mall girls at my local mall just seem to be so damn stuck up i wanna:kick:Sorry for my rant any oppinions would be cool. and im not a fat 205 i just make other 15 year old guys look like puss. bags
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Charm

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You approach just like everybody else does. You act cool, dont make a big deal out of it and relax. You get comfortable doing it BY ACTUALLY doing it. It takes practice and balls. You have the balls to run full speed and smash your body into another person running at you full speed, but you're scared to walk up to a 110 lb girl and say "Hi, I saw you over here and wanted to come say hello and see what you were like. What's your name?" She'll immeditaly answer. If she asks you what yours is, thats an IOI. Then ask her some questions and go from there.

Approach at the mall, bowling alleys, girls who work at stores anywhere, girls in grocery store, etc. At this point in the game, you need practice so get out there and practice approaching. Learn to be fearless only through taking action and refining your skills.
 

BluEyes

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hit the squat rack if you want the ladies.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stags09

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ben yeah im 15 that picture might give you a point as to why girls might be intimidated by me i just finished my sophomore football season and im already seeing D1 interest on another note blue i gurantee i squat more than most grown men on this forum 485x2
 

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Don't really want to tell you what to do with girls, everyone got an opinion but here is my opinion.

You are a freaking 5'11" 205lbs Monster. Now go put your hands in your damn pants and find your damn balls and approach the ladies like Charm just stated. Nothing to it man.

If they are damn intimidated what does that mean? Are they scared of you? Most defiantly 90% heck no. They are probably interested in you and especially by the fact they know you play FOOTBALL. By just playing football you are now probably in the top 10% of eligible guys in school.

Now that you are in that top 10% what do you do? You socialize bro. SOCIALIZE. Do that and the girls will come.

But what is the biggest factor here? It's you finding you ballz and approaching the girls.

-Hope that helped a bit.
 

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jesus man thats a beastly body for a 15 year old
must have some great genetics

just socialize as much as you can and eventually you will get better
smile
 
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