"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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50 Game '08

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Welcome everyone, it's your neighborhood @sshole, with a fresh new thread!

I'm sure all the college students are gearing up for the new semester, in anticipation of unique learning experiences, fulfilling and most importantly...


You got it, B!tches! Allllllrighty, let's get down to bizniz. This is going to be my thread where I play my 50 game. I will approach 50 girls and write down the good, the bad, and the Michael Jackson ugly.
My Rules?

1. I must be willing to bang her

2. I musn't have had prior dialogue w/ her.

3. I must attempt SOME TYPE OF CLOSE.

4. I must either approach her solo, or be the leading man.

If anybody on this thread (preferably in college) feels like they can do better than me, or just have the balls to play, show me what you got, this thread is for you too. Keep in mind, I'm no beginner, but beginners are def welcome. Who's willing to step up and play the 50 Game '08?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LOL,...uhhhhhhh, just seeing if you were paying attention. :)

I start next weds. Looks like I'm going to 50 solo thus far.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, it start next weds, so if you want to be embarassed, let me know by then.
 

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Bump, don't wanna lose the post.

Did A few warm-up approaches.

ProDJ- What do you mean we're 'behind'?
 

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Come on rex You will get schooled. Competition brings out the best in me..... Any place any time rex I am always up for the challenge. Just to let u know your dealing with a world champ. I am not an amatuer. Talk is cheap. Just be honest with what your posting. Don't be selling bs stories to us. I already called out a PUA> Asian playboy. Look at his post. I haven't heard from him. I wonder why?????????????????? Don't get cold feet REX. LOL
 

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Lol, you sound like me.

The #1 rule for this thread is honesty. If I get smacked 50 times, it will be reported. That's what makes this fun.

World Champ, huh? While I don't think I'm quite old enough for such a title, plz believe I will give you some comp. ;)


Anyone else with the balls can still get in by Weds.
 

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I actually went out tonight. Clubbing had about 6 approaches without much success. I will probably post these on this thread, instead of making another my night at the club thread. Hey bro were do you plan on making most of your approaches? I usually make mine at clubs and bars. DOn't do many street approaches. But I think I will try that avenue.


I am too tired to type all that now??/ Will type it tomorrow..... Let the games begin. Asian playboy, and all the donjuans lets do this.... Lets post our approaches here...


Its time to step up to the plate..... LETS GET READY TO RUMBLE:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You shouldn't type up your spring training approaches. The competition doesn't start till wednesday so we'll start then.

I plan on making damn near all my approaches around campus and at the mall. I will do some club and bar approaches also though. But sometimes I get a little nervous in clubs :nervous:
 

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I live in a university town, and my university is like 6k kids, and I've already talked to more or less everyone in my class lol.

Alright, I'm in.
 

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That makes three. 2 Unis and the 'World Champ' :p

-That sucks Flabber, My Uni is 20K+. However, it isn't really close to any major cities so......

Let's do this.
 

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Alright Rex I am ready to start whenever you are..... Will wait till you start. I am surprised we are on a Don juan forum and noone wants to step up to the challenge..:down:


Hey bro. Your nervous at the clubs. I am more nervous approaching girls at bookstores and coffee shops. If you need any tips on the club game let me know I am very experienced in the club scene....

LET THE GAMES BEGIN
 

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solo is not as hard as when they are in a group, especially a mixed group
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes......

I'm in a damn good mood. Did 2 approaches today started the first at about 12:30AM. Yeah AM.

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#1 The First Step
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(Going down my hall towards my room about to get ready to call it a night. Spot slightly intoxicated caucasian chick with Mixed HB. decide to buffer with the tipsy chick.)

Rex Man: How yall doin?

Drunk: Good, are you next door to us? (HB looks nervous)

RM: I think so (Glanced at Jack Daniels bottle), wasting no time huh?

Drunk and HB: Lol
Drunk: Nope, but I can't find any weed.

RM: That's a shame. I get offered weed all the time; it's probably cause I'm black.

HB: LOl!
(at this point tipsy girl keeps asking me about weed and drinking so I get ready to rap this one up.)

RM: So what's your names?

Drunk: I'm [drunk]. What's yo-
RM: And you?

HB: I'm [HB], what's your name?

RM: [RM]

HB: [RM], That's so cute!

RM: Thank you. (staring directly at the HB9), so im about to go to sleep, do you have a facebook?

HB: Yeah! (yes, she very excitable for some reason)

RM: Well, Imma hit you up with a Msg, alright?

HB:Alright

RM: Yall be safe.

FAILURE- The drunk girl was obviously into me and the HB was staying back because of that fact. Couldn't go in for a real close without getting blocked

0-1
 

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(Me and my close friend,let's call him Zalos Wilder, see this drop dead girl working at the Student Center. I get too nervous and let her pass us by as we sat and ate. After eating we grab our belongings and began to walk out. I see her again. I take a deep breath and turn around...)

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#2 Talkin' Trash
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Rex Man: You look so mad, is this job that bad?

Drop Dead Girl: It's alright, I just hate collecting trash.

RM: Hey, a job's a job. (DDG nods head) You don't look familiar, are you sophomore or something?

DDG: No, imma Junior(Lying Ass!)

RM:Oh, what you studying?

DDG: Business Management

RM: Really?? I'm in Marketing. That's strange we don't have any classes together.

DDG: Um, I don't know (looking caught up.)

(School this blah blah blah Work this yadda yadda yadda. 5 min later)

RM: Well anyways what's going on this weekend? You kicking it?

DDG:I'm going back home for the weekend but Im back Sunday.

RM: Well it's cool if i hit you up when you get back?

DDG: :yes:

(Get the number, and do Flip number check. It checks)

(3 minutes of fluff later)

RM: alright well look for me to call you early next week, then.

DDG: ok

Walk out the Student center look check behind me and let it out
YES!!!!!

RM: That's good stuff
Zalos Wilder: Lol! we need some more like those
RM: That we do, that we do.

1 For 2
 

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ahhh what the helll...I just finished my journal and i was gonna start a new thread but might as well come in here with people who have the same goal... I'm 20 in university, looking to improve my closing rate and follow up game.

Oh & rex, you say you are 1/2
does that mean 1 attempted close out of two girls or one successful close out of two girls?
 

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Wecome aboard Mic Fiend.

and yeah, it's 1 successful close.
 

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lookyoung said:
Don't be selling bs stories to us. I already called out a PUA> Asian playboy. Look at his post. I haven't heard from him. I wonder why?????????????????? Don't get cold feet REX. LOL
LMAO its sad how some people have limiting belief. That guy has enough credit that the FRs that he post aren't fake. The guy is an instructor and is one of the well known asian PUAs.

If you really think his FRs are lies then you haven't been unplugged from the matrix yet. If you practice and get real good then doing most of this will be common. There is one guru who specifically teaches how to get f-close or BJ-close in less than 10 minutes. (Think of it as a quick ons type of thing)

Really though I'm glad to see other people starting approach. keep it up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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