50/50 relationships are bull-****!

[00Kevin]

OK I have some news for all you pathetic losers who think that a relationship should be 50/50.

If you think that you are living in a fantacy world proliferated by the likes of Opra and Dr Phill.

A long time ago, oh.. about 50 years ago people didn't think in therms of 50/50. They realized that a relationship is all about giving.

The problem is that women don't think that way anymore. Very few women today take pleasure out of giving unconditionally.

This is also the main reason why so many marriages fail today.
Women resent men because men can get off all the time . When this happens they start to co-ck block their husbands and in no time at all you have another divorce.


The reason I'm posting this is because I recently found a girl that sucks and sucks. And she does it without asking for anything in return. This is girl is amazing. She takes pleasure out of making me happy.. she actually tries to stop me from returning the favour.

That for me is the natural order of things. A woman should give and show high interest levels. A man should also do the same. When that happens things work out.

But if you just sit there on your ass and you don't keep nexting all the stupid modern hoes you will get no place.

They are f-ucked up wh-ores who don't understand what a relationship is all about. They think that the relationship is a scale that should always be balanced. That couldn't be further from the truth. A real relationship is one where both sides are trying their best to please the other person. When that happens there is no resentment. Men and women take pleasure out of different things and for different reasons. That is why a 50/50 relationship is full of crap.

Trust me on this. If you are with agirl that is worried about 50/50 set her right and lay the smack down on her. Then if she doesn't smarten up. Next her ass .. If you don't you will just get fu-cked in the end. ... in fact you won't be f-ucking at all.


Keep nexting those whor-es...

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Relationships should not be 50/50.




They need to be 100/100.

 

[00Kevin]

realistically, they are 30/70 or 70/30 or even 100/0 .... and that is the point.

It is a moving scale that is never balanced.
When you try to balance the equation you are wasting your time.

Women today try to balance everything. For example, if they don't get anything from giving you a BJ they won't do it. Most women today don't care about making a man happy. They are very selfish.


You need to find a chick that doesn't think in those terms and accepts the fact that the scale never balances.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

They should be 100/100... in other words, I put in 100% and she puts in 100%. That may or may not be how it works in reality, but that's the theoretical standard to strive for.

100/100.

 

[spider_007]

any relationship should be about giving, nut just bf/gf relationship. It should be with your friends and family too......If everybody did it, a world would be a happier place.

 

[CLOONEY]

Agree 100%

This is why it is important for guys to realise, if they are not dating a girl who does this, next!

There are a LOT of selfish bi*ches out there, although there are definaetly still some genuinely giving girls, my brother found one in his first girlfriend, and has now been with her for 15 years, it took me until just a few months ago to find one for myself! And that is after sifting through a truckload of girls!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
They should be 100/100... in other words, I put in 100% and she puts in 100%. That may or may not be how it works in reality, but that's the theoretical standard to strive for.

100/100.

I agree, each should always give their best. Their best may change from day to day but none the less, they should give their best (what ever that may be) each and every day.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Relationships should not be 50/50.




They need to be 100/100.

Jeebus, I agree with you again. I was just going to post the same thing and saw that you beat me to it.

BOTH people DO have to give 100% in a relationship for it to be of quality and for it to last. Of course there are going to be times where each partner doesn't give 100%, which is okay...as long as both make the effort to give all they are capable of at any given time.

 

[MacDiddy]

There is no such thing us a 50/50 relationship in a DJ's world... I would have thought that was self evident...

The DJ way does not lend itself to measuring quantity of effort... Its the quality of effort that he puts in that will determine the quality and/or quantity (at the DJs discretion) of effort she is going to put out...

 

[00Kevin]

I agree that overall a relationship is 100/100 but at when it comes to an individual situation it isn't that way and it shouldn't be that way.


For example, my girl needs me to put my arms around her.
For this situation it is 100/0. I couldn't care less if she does the same because it doesn't do anything for me. There is no need for her to return the favour.

That is the point I'm trying to make.

There are too many people who always expect the same in return. That is impossible because men and women have different needs.