DJ Alejandro
Senior Don Juan
its been a while since I wrote here cuz i also got a little busy improving myself. in that duration, ive found a few topics we should avoid being too ****y about. here goes. im talking about neghits just in general by the way. =)
5.) RACE
living in this 'modern' world, racism isn't really something we should avoid if you're still a newbie like me. what i mean is that if youre dating an asian, i doubt she's gonna appreciate talking about human races during a date. even if we dont mean any harm, she might be a little sensitive. (and YES, im asian.)
4.) FRIENDS
though it is cute, sometimes people don't really appreciate it when you talk about her friends. i mean, besides the fact that she's 'obligated' to 'defend' her friends, it might spark a little tension between the both of you. especially if youre still early in the dating game.
3.) RELIGION
of course! we should try to avoid neghits about religion. well, unless you wanna come across as a jerk. take this, if youre an atheist dating a catholic or muslim, you might wanna try avoiding this topic cuz these issues are sensitive. i was on a double date was with my wingman and his date and since they talked about it, things got a little sour between them.
2.) FAMILY
i doubt 'making fun' (that's how the girlz put it) of their family members is gonna be of benefit to you. i mean like so what if her brother's a bit smelly or her sister spits everytime she talks. try not to comment... for now. im not recommending you comment though. try this though, try talking to her family members a bit. like brother even if he's still smelly. it is true what they say. only the people she's living with can really tell if what kinda psycho she really is.
1.) YOURSELF
yupz. oh cummon! dont neghit yourself, ayt? a friend of mine actually bust on himself. not the smartest thing to do.
That's what ive learned so far. i maybe wrong, i maybe right about these things. all i can say is that when you get a little ****y, dont try it on the heavy stuff at first. i think most of you guyz already know about these stuff but lets just say that im writing to those who are a lot more newbie than i am. hope this helps.
5.) RACE
living in this 'modern' world, racism isn't really something we should avoid if you're still a newbie like me. what i mean is that if youre dating an asian, i doubt she's gonna appreciate talking about human races during a date. even if we dont mean any harm, she might be a little sensitive. (and YES, im asian.)
4.) FRIENDS
though it is cute, sometimes people don't really appreciate it when you talk about her friends. i mean, besides the fact that she's 'obligated' to 'defend' her friends, it might spark a little tension between the both of you. especially if youre still early in the dating game.
3.) RELIGION
of course! we should try to avoid neghits about religion. well, unless you wanna come across as a jerk. take this, if youre an atheist dating a catholic or muslim, you might wanna try avoiding this topic cuz these issues are sensitive. i was on a double date was with my wingman and his date and since they talked about it, things got a little sour between them.
2.) FAMILY
i doubt 'making fun' (that's how the girlz put it) of their family members is gonna be of benefit to you. i mean like so what if her brother's a bit smelly or her sister spits everytime she talks. try not to comment... for now. im not recommending you comment though. try this though, try talking to her family members a bit. like brother even if he's still smelly. it is true what they say. only the people she's living with can really tell if what kinda psycho she really is.
1.) YOURSELF
yupz. oh cummon! dont neghit yourself, ayt? a friend of mine actually bust on himself. not the smartest thing to do.
That's what ive learned so far. i maybe wrong, i maybe right about these things. all i can say is that when you get a little ****y, dont try it on the heavy stuff at first. i think most of you guyz already know about these stuff but lets just say that im writing to those who are a lot more newbie than i am. hope this helps.