"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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5 things that make you the man..

500_W00P

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With the recent surge of negativity I thought it would be a good idea if we helped build each others confidence by posting 5 reasons that Your The Man!! Be realistic list your good qualities.

I'll start:

1: Great Sense Of Humor
2: Great sense of intellect
3: Great sense of self
4: Naturally a leader
5: Good at sports.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Awesome post 500 W00P.

I just moved back to Ontario after a long stint working oil rigs in Alberta. I had to get my sense of humor back to that of people in the "real world." Not quite as crude as it was. I have recently quit smoking and started going to the gym. That has boosted my confidence alot. And i started playing sports again after 3 years off. Im started to get my athletic prowless back. Its awesome, and as for the woman situation, right now it couldnt be any better. LOL. Just living the dream.
 

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these things are indeed true. I recently visited Texas Tech for new student orientation and i plan on shinning in all of these areas for they come natural to me. I haven't been to athletic lately nor have i been working out, but even with my slack i noticed my speed hasn't changed. Though last i went to the gym i couldn't lift what i was used to, a week or two back in the gym i will be fine. A quality post OP 100% true
 

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I'm just overall successful in a lot of areas in my life. In others, at least I am working hard and see a clear path towards achieving success.

Except when it comes to girls, where I am still floundering in the open ocean. I know my negative attitude at least partially is at fault, but I am having extreme difficulty getting over the negativeness.
 

eko

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Have a girlfriend now and a bunch of friends etc whatever. I used to be a lot more dedicated at the gym. Since my back injury i lost 10 lbs time to get that back and and get on track again. eat eat eat eat eat lift lift lift lift lift get huge :up:. good thread. I kinda needed that extra kick in the arse, i'm getting complacent with my life. cutting down on weed too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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