“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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5 Surefire Ways To Make A Woman Feel Good

Allurre

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What up guys, just thought I'd share some helpful pieces of dating advice with you. Here are 5 often overlooked ways to make a woman feel special, and facts you should definitely be armed with.

1. When you're giving any sorts of compliment to a woman, look her straight in the eyes. Don't apply any cheesy pick up lines, and spurt out things you don't believe in. Compliment not her looks, but the intangible such as her intelligence or thoughtfulness.

2. Talk about something no one else does. Girls want guys who are fascinating, beyond the typical. Get educated; we should live to learn more everyday. Tap into more cultures and learn about them.

3. Ask about her life with deeper, more meaningful, and personal questions. Don't be afraid of assuming it's too forward, or too early to get personal. It's a no holes bared society. The only person that's stopping you is yourself.

4. Make her smile; make her laugh when she's around you. Think about it, you'll be the only few people in her present life that's making her feel cheerful. When you can make a woman laugh, it also boosts your social status and is one of the greatest ways to attract other girls around you.

5. If you're with a girl, never be controlling or possessive.That's a no-no. Let her breathe. Give her freedom. You'll be surprised how many guys these days literally have a monitoring device strapped to their woman's life. They call or text message whenever the girl is away.

Guys, learn to make a woman feel special, but that does not mean you should behave slavishly.

If you know how to make a woman feel special with these simple techniques, I guarantee it can create same effect as giving a woman orgasm, except you're not even physically contacting them.

They will feel indebted to you, and will thereby want to keep you around. This is probably the best way to attract more women too.

Good luck guys.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)

CEO/Artist/Producer/Designer
Creator of Sync Dating

P.S Make sure you check out my personal blog where I'll be offering more golden nuggets at http://www.absolutedatingtips.com
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pLaYtHiNg

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I really like this post. :up: I'll be checking out your blog. :)
 

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i agree. This is decent information that most dj's know but most afc's always skip over.
 

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5. If you're with a girl, never be controlling or possessive.That's a no-no. Let her breathe. Give her freedom. You'll be surprised how many guys these days literally have a monitoring device strapped to their woman's life. They call or text message whenever the girl is away.

This is very true, i have noticed how insecure so many of men are when their girlfriends i dare say have their own lives and wish to do their own things. Women need time to themselves, even if its meeting up with their girlfriends for a bit$h, or going shopping or a night out. If you love somebody you trust them, and vice versa. If you cant trust your partner then you have to look at yourself and say am i the problem or her!?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AFCs should take note of 1 and 5 especially. Women can see right through fake, insincere, generic compliments that you use to try and get in their pants easily, and being controlling or possesive reeks of insecurity.
 

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6. Know who you are dealing with.

I know a fair amount of women who tend to date controlling and possessive men. If you are dating one of them, number 5 will get you cheated on and dumped. Know who you are dealing with.
 

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Double thumbs up especially in relation to #1 and #5 (from a chick's perspective!).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Allurre said:
5. If you're with a girl, never be controlling or possessive.That's a no-no. Let her breathe. Give her freedom. You'll be surprised how many guys these days literally have a monitoring device strapped to their woman's life. They call or text message whenever the girl is away.
So alright, this is a GOLDEN rule for me.

I was recently out with this one girl (we're just seeing each other). She said to her friend "Yeah, I got another date with this other guy."

Later in that night, her best friend's boyfriend was kinda getting drunk and the best friend said it again. Convo Time:
Him: "What the hell dude? Go tell her what to do and lay the smackdown."
Me: "No thanks."
Girl: "Why would he say anything."
Him: "You're his..."
Me: *stays silent*
Best Friend: "Stop talking..."
Him: "Why don't you say anything?"
Me: *stays silent*
Him: "What are you a *****?"
Me: "No, I just have the utmost confidence that I will get with her."
Him: "Yeah right weakling."
Me: "HAHAHA I would rather not talk and let people think that I am a fool, then open my mouth and remove all doubt."
Him: "Uh... Yeah right. I just couldn't do what you do."
Me: "Yeah..."
Best friend: whispers to girl "Damn your new guy is so damn sexy!"
Me: "Whats up?"
Best Friend: "Oh... nothing."

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Warrior74 said:
6. Know who you are dealing with.

I know a fair amount of women who tend to date controlling and possessive men. If you are dating one of them, number 5 will get you cheated on and dumped. Know who you are dealing with.
I definitely agree with this one. One of the biggest things I've learned is that you gotta be able to adjust. Some girls like you being sweet. Some like you being mad at them. You just gotta know how to read the girl. Great advice.
 
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