"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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5 Sure Signs she's interested?

ARrocket

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lol I found this article on a website:

Test 1: The Time Probe
Forget your silly pickup line. Ask her for the time instead. If she answers with anything other than the time, she's interested. The only exception is "I don't know"--but only if she's not wearing a watch.
Test 2: The Eye-Contact Probe
While you're talking with her, sustain eye contact for a fraction of a second longer than what feels natural. If she holds your eye, she's interested. If she looks away, she's not.
Test 3: The Wink Probe
If she makes a joke or someone else does something dumb, give her a wink and share the moment. If she relaxes or laughs, she's interested.
Test 4: The Body-Check Probe
Make eye contact, then quickly (in less than a second) pass your eyes down and up her body, then look back into her eyes. If she smiles when your eyes meet again, she's interested.
Test 5: The Compliment Probe
Pay her the kind of compliment a potential lover would make--it should be something personal but not overtly sexual. Also avoid the type of thing a friend might say; for instance, opt for "You have really great style" rather than "You have a really nice briefcase." If she smiles or thanks you warmly, she's interested. If she Maces you, she's not.
Try This Mind Game
If you know she's interested, tell her that the subconscious reveals a person's romantic feelings. Ask her to interlock her fingers as if she's making a gun, point it at you, and separate her index fingers as far as possible. Tell her that if her fingers slowly move back together, she's interested in the person she's pointing at. They will--they always do.


My thoughts: As for the time thing, what could she possibly say? "Time for you to get a watch?" lol it sounds interesting, but it doesn't make much sense to me.

the thing I really liked about it was the mind game trick. lol it is funny, and I think it's a good way to throw in a bit of C&F. What do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Test 1: The Time Probe
Forget your silly pickup line. Ask her for the time instead. If she answers with anything other than the time, she's interested.


You: Do you have the time?
Her: Yes, I have time to have sex with you.:yes:

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i agree with rules 2-5, i've done this with girls before and gotten similar results... i don't get rule #1...i guess if you ask her the time and she wants to talk to you or something that might be a sign of interest but it's pretty lame..lol
 

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Nice post but I call BS on all of them except #4.

#1: Makes no sense, Rebound's post pretty much sums it up :crackup:

#2: This works, but not in the way you said. MOST girls I talk to around my dating range will still hold eye contact when I hold it there for a bit longer, but not so long that it looks like I'm staring them down. It does NOT mean they are interested though.

Rather, if they divert their eyes, it could show DISINTEREST, or the girl is just shy.

#3: If a girl is at least COMFORTABLE around you, and that means not creeped out, if and when she says something dumb and you call her out on it, she'll always laugh. Doesn't mean she's interested.

#5: Girls are socially conditioned to thank you when they are complemented. While I disagree that complementing girls is AFC, even if they are not interested, they will still be happy and thank you warmly. Girls love attention, we all know this.

MINDGAME: Uh, what the hell? When I read this first, I just saw it as a C+F trick. Her fingers were pointing at you originally anyways.
 

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LostAndConfused said:
MINDGAME: Uh, what the hell? When I read this first, I just saw it as a C+F trick. Her fingers were pointing at you originally anyways.

You should try it on your own fingers, then you will get it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've seen these before. They don't seem that great, but I thought the fingers thing was gold. Haven't had a chance to try it yet. Let me knows how it goes if anyone does it.
 

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The time thing, sounds like this article I read in a self help mag written by a woman.

" Look at your watch. If a girl looks too, shes interested."
 

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What if she says, "Half-past a monkey's ass." or, "time for you to get a watch."

As for winking....mm--nah. I don't wink.
 

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These are good, but the main one for me is she starts playing with her hair, using her hands to fling it around. It is the most obvious, cliche' behavior a woman can exhibit.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Isn't the thing with the fingers coming together something Mystery described on the pickup show on VH1?
 

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There a lot of signs, just use the search button. So far, I think Pook has it right on though http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18343

A lot of girls especially AWs can be very deceptive with body language. In my experience, them being shy around you is the most reliable since it is very diffcult to fake. #1 indicator is shyness to me. There are other stuff like biting her lips and her eyes moving down, but be wary...it can be a trick for your attention. There's been a lot of discussion about this before and it's agreed that you shouldn't get carried away with interest signs because its not 100% reliable. Be sure to only use it as a tool to gauge the situation or else you overanalyze everything. I've been there and it seriously make things much more complicated with you and your girls.

Finally, follow Killa's advice and just approach, that's how we truly find out.
 

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OMG this is so true!!
I will add one

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#6 - If she has two arms and two legs she is interested !
 

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Fun stuff but its not that simple... being that there are like 30 men to every w oman women tend to be interested in in many men at any given time so her just being attracted =or interested guarantees nothing.
 

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Theres 30 men to every woman? May I ask where you obtained that statistic?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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