"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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5 Reasons Online Dating stinks!!

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its quite amazing that some loser who has no clue how to get women will post negative **** like this, saying "A doesnt work, B doesnt work, C has fat chicks so that doesnt work, D has attention *****s so that doesnt work, E has too many single moms, F has music that's too loud, G has too many guys and its annoying trying to compete with them, H doesn't feel right"

and them those same losers try to support each other in saying "yea man i feel ya!!! i dont get laid either, those goddamn attention wh-res at clubs, those goddamn single moms on myspace, those goddamn c0ckblocks at frat parties, bla bla bla i feel ya man, let's all rejoice in our loserdom"

meanwhile, the guys who are good with girls, they quietly go about their business and have fun everywhere they go, whether its a party, a club, or some hooking up on myspace. the DIFFERENCE is the guy who is good with girls isn't a negative minded loser

ONLINE DATING DOESN'T STIKNK! YOUR GAME STINKS AND THUS YOU DON'T ATTRACT HOTTIES ONLINE - they are there, and they are looking to hook up with the best guys, which you aren't, thus you have no success, do i have to make it any clearer???

MYSPACE owns online dating, use anything else and you are a fool! Myspace has girls 14-35, all over the place, for free, u just send them a message and tell them u wanna talk cuz they are gorgeous/cute/WHATERVER. You can be 40 years old and hit on 30 year olds. You can be 15 years old and hit on 14 year olds. YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO FAIL IN HOOKING UP THROUGH MYSPACE
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Real said:
its quite amazing that some loser who has no clue how to get women will post negative **** like this, saying "A doesnt work, B doesnt work, C has fat chicks so that doesnt work, D has attention *****s so that doesnt work, E has too many single moms, F has music that's too loud, G has too many guys and its annoying trying to compete with them, H doesn't feel right"

and them those same losers try to support each other in saying "yea man i feel ya!!! i dont get laid either, those goddamn attention wh-res at clubs, those goddamn single moms on myspace, those goddamn c0ckblocks at frat parties, bla bla bla i feel ya man, let's all rejoice in our loserdom"

meanwhile, the guys who are good with girls, they quietly go about their business and have fun everywhere they go, whether its a party, a club, or some hooking up on myspace. the DIFFERENCE is the guy who is good with girls isn't a negative minded loser

ONLINE DATING DOESN'T STIKNK! YOUR GAME STINKS AND THUS YOU DON'T ATTRACT HOTTIES ONLINE - they are there, and they are looking to hook up with the best guys, which you aren't, thus you have no success, do i have to make it any clearer???

MYSPACE owns online dating, use anything else and you are a fool! Myspace has girls 14-35, all over the place, for free, u just send them a message and tell them u wanna talk cuz they are gorgeous/cute/WHATERVER. You can be 40 years old and hit on 30 year olds. You can be 15 years old and hit on 14 year olds. YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO FAIL IN HOOKING UP THROUGH MYSPACE

I agree with this attitude. I don't know why everyone is so negative with the online thing, saying it's embarassing and whatnot. Makes no sense to me. Hey if you don't mind, can you PM me your myspace link, I just want to see what a winning myspace page looks like.
 

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speakeasy, i'll tell you right now, my page has no info, no fancy background, 45 friends (mostly girls), and a few pretty nice pics up. I message random girls and get their screen names and talk to them - and i dont see it as a chore or as some annoying job i gotta do, i view it all as FUN, and I end up with as many cell #s as i want
 

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Real said:
its quite amazing that some loser who has no clue how to get women will post negative **** like this, saying "A doesnt work, B doesnt work, C has fat chicks so that doesnt work, D has attention *****s so that doesnt work, E has too many single moms, F has music that's too loud, G has too many guys and its annoying trying to compete with them, H doesn't feel right"

and them those same losers try to support each other in saying "yea man i feel ya!!! i dont get laid either, those goddamn attention wh-res at clubs, those goddamn single moms on myspace, those goddamn c0ckblocks at frat parties, bla bla bla i feel ya man, let's all rejoice in our loserdom"

meanwhile, the guys who are good with girls, they quietly go about their business and have fun everywhere they go, whether its a party, a club, or some hooking up on myspace. the DIFFERENCE is the guy who is good with girls isn't a negative minded loser...
Welcome to the world of SoSuave, I microcosm of what's happening in the day to day lives of a lot of guys. There are guys who aren't successful who believe that their experiences denote the state of the world just as there are guys who are successful who believe that all guys have the capacity to be successful without the pain and bitterness. Both groups could be right just as easily as both groups could be wrong.
 

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fuzzx, on myspace you have to be direct, there is no other way

and be careful with your words, saying something like "i want to meet u, i want to get to know u" is creepy and you wont get replies

saying something "hey girl i think you have a really unique beauty to u, and id love to talk sometime, whats your screen name?" works very well
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Real said:
its quite amazing that some loser who has no clue how to get women will post negative **** like this, saying "A doesnt work, B doesnt work, C has fat chicks so that doesnt work, D has attention *****s so that doesnt work, E has too many single moms, F has music that's too loud, G has too many guys and its annoying trying to compete with them, H doesn't feel right"

and them those same losers try to support each other in saying "yea man i feel ya!!! i dont get laid either, those goddamn attention wh-res at clubs, those goddamn single moms on myspace, those goddamn c0ckblocks at frat parties, bla bla bla i feel ya man, let's all rejoice in our loserdom"

meanwhile, the guys who are good with girls, they quietly go about their business and have fun everywhere they go, whether its a party, a club, or some hooking up on myspace. the DIFFERENCE is the guy who is good with girls isn't a negative minded loser

ONLINE DATING DOESN'T STIKNK! YOUR GAME STINKS AND THUS YOU DON'T ATTRACT HOTTIES ONLINE - they are there, and they are looking to hook up with the best guys, which you aren't, thus you have no success, do i have to make it any clearer???

MYSPACE owns online dating, use anything else and you are a fool! Myspace has girls 14-35, all over the place, for free, u just send them a message and tell them u wanna talk cuz they are gorgeous/cute/WHATERVER. You can be 40 years old and hit on 30 year olds. You can be 15 years old and hit on 14 year olds. YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO FAIL IN HOOKING UP THROUGH MYSPACE
Lol, your one funny guy.

Number 12: Friend sites where men are succesful, a large % is down to location.

Anyway kid i have slept with more girls then your little mind can comprehend, girls you would wan* over on your TV screen, even girls from online dating and i still think its a load of shi*!

Stick to myspace i prefer the real world.

Calling people loosers cos a they think online dating is a load of shi* tells me your about 15 years old.

Instead of posting how great it is, why not post a guide for myspace dating tips, show us lesser mortals how its done, now thats constructive :D
 

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Lol, your one funny guy.

Number 12: Friend sites where men are succesful, a large % is down to location.

Anyway kid i have slept with more girls then your little mind can comprehend, girls you would wan* over on your TV screen, even girls from online dating and i still think its a load of shi*!

Stick to myspace i prefer the real world.

Calling people loosers cos a they think online dating is a load of shi* tells me your about 15 years old.

Instead of posting how great it is, why not post a guide for myspace dating tips, show us lesser mortals how its done, now thats constructive :D

1) its spelled "loser", not "looser", i dont get why grown men spell that word wrong all the time

2) my rant was devoted to the thread starter and anyone who thinks like him, so dont assume i meant that it applied to you (i actually like your wank post and agree 100% with it by the way)

3) I posted a link in just this thread to a guide to picking up girls in myspace.

4) i dont see why you are telling me to stick to myspace while u stick to real life, because when im cvming inside a girl, it feels pretty real life to me, and i could give a **** less if i met her on myspace or somewhere else
 
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