"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi. I am Azudragon and i am new to Sosuave.net, but have been learning from this site for many months.. This is my first post. I have just finished reading DJ Bootcamp, Dj Bible, and the Book of Pook, and have read a couple of books about dating and seduction for the past year and i have seen myself become the "king of my own kingdom" thanks to you guys. i am a beginner don juan,( above rafc). :rockon: I have several questions;

1). I am curious, around what percentage of males between 18-30 are AFCs?

2.) Around What percentage of males in this age group put away there ego, pride, and status and take the time to learn about women and improve their skills?

3.) As a Don Juan, should you help AFCs in real life improve there game, or should you treat your game as a sacred art and keep it secret because you worked hard to learn and improve it, only revealed and talked about to other Don Juans ?

4.) When you have the ability to attract most beautiful girls really easily by having a magnetic personality, and a couple of them are chasing you at once, how do stay grounded and not let this ability make you think you own the world, and that you are all that?

5.) Last question, do AFCs make getting a single woman's attention and attraction easier or harder, since they are usually the majority of guys chasing her ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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1). I think its 7% that learned the seduction way, 3% thats natural and 90% who has no clue. In general that is.

2.) Around 7% i guess.

3.) As a Don Juan i will keep my game sacred, but i will help people if i feel like it. I will reveal what they could use at the moment and let them create thier own game so that we don't get copies but personality's.

4.) It will boost my self-esteem but beause i already know i have to stay grounded, i will.

5.) This really depends on the situation. But we have the adventage because we know what we are doing.

"Gaming" a girl and getting good at it is only to increase the chance to get what you want. Nothing is 100% as anything in life.
 

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Azudragon said:
Hi. I am Azudragon and i am new to Sosuave.net, but have been learning from this site for many months.. This is my first post. I have just finished reading DJ Bootcamp, Dj Bible, and the Book of Pook, and have read a couple of books about dating and seduction for the past year and i have seen myself become the "king of my own kingdom" thanks to you guys. i am a beginner don juan,( above rafc). :rockon: I have several questions;

1). I am curious, around what percentage of males between 18-30 are AFCs?

2.) Around What percentage of males in this age group put away there ego, pride, and status and take the time to learn about women and improve their skills?

3.) As a Don Juan, should you help AFCs in real life improve there game, or should you treat your game as a sacred art and keep it secret because you worked hard to learn and improve it, only revealed and talked about to other Don Juans ?

4.) When you have the ability to attract most beautiful girls really easily by having a magnetic personality, and a couple of them are chasing you at once, how do stay grounded and not let this ability make you think you own the world, and that you are all that?

5.) Last question, do AFCs make getting a single woman's attention and attraction easier or harder, since they are usually the majority of guys chasing her ?
1. who gives a crap? I don't.

2. again. who gives a crap. its not relavant to my life or yours, only to marketers.

3. neither. you should share info with your friends if and when they are ready. horses to water. its nothing scared about this stuff, millions of guys do it everyday. its just that guys here didn't know these basic rules or believe them before they got here.

4. When I get there I'll let you know.

5. Again. Who cares? As long as you are getting what you want why worry about that extra bullshyt.

That's too much thinking about stuff that doesn't matter at all. Part of shedding that AFC is to stop thinking so much about things that have no real importance. How many of your question have any real importance? Your mission is to be a better man, enjoy life and have fun with women. So how is the number of AFCs helping you achieve your goal? How is worrying about AFCs making it harder or easier helping you to achieve your goal. AFCs worry and analyze, DJs do not. They go with the flow. Stop worrying and thinking and just start doing. Good luck.
 

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1). Do a survey.

2.) Do a survey.

3.) Its your call. When someone comes to me and asks me for help, I usually assist. Otherwise I don't give advice to deaf ears.

4.) Humility.

5.) Easier. Most chicks don't like chumps.

6.) Stop asking dumb questions.
 

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okay, 1 & 2 sound soo fanboyish so i'll skip them

3- I help others if they ask and want the advice that i have; not helping them and keeping seduction and self-help a sacred art goes against the whole idea of this forum (besides making cash on ads) but sure; sharing knowledge isn't like sharing food, it won't make what you have any less and even give you more gratification

4- That was the situation that actually made me realize having a ****-load of girls won't silence my anxieties or solve my issues (4 girls barging in a conversation i was having with a totally confident babe, and it went to my head "check me out, i'm a PUA YAY !") so instead of learning about women i began learning about myself.
How to stay grounded ? be more grounded to what you want and everything about it (Your feelings, how would you want to react, what is it this desire,..etc) that's what did the trick for me

5- Again, pointless question and ridiculously generalizing; i personally don't go for attention *****s. They're too quiet and far less engaging than my type of girls
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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as the fellow posters
1 2 irrelvant
3. I tell my friends when the situation comes up if they want advice for that topic then i'll give it if not then im a secret person, im not going to go around saying look im a pua or anything to that extent
4. its hard to keep grounded i suppose im quiet a youngin 17, i suppose just realise that you have other priorities in life
5. I would have no idea my game is my game
 
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1). 99

2.) .00001

3.) Secret on the street.

4.) I am all that, what are you talking about?

5.) Easier due to less competition. Harder due to less good examples to follow.
 
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I took a couple of days to reread the Book of Pook again, after reading these helpful comments, especially Warrior74s and Alle Gorys. I decided to approach girls everywhere i went, at the mall, at the supermarket, even whaen i had to take my borther to Chuckie Cheese, ( there was some 18+ bored girls there with family). After approching a couple dozen girls,I ended up getting a couple numbers, and long story short. I ended playing minigolf with a HB 7.5 latina brunette, ( with lots of kino and teasing of the "Im better than you at minigolf " variety), and i saw the movie Eagle Eye with a HB 7 blackhaired asian, and went on a walk at the park we played catch we kissed at the swings.
I have realized that asking this questions was pretty much worthless. :crackup: It doesnt matter how many Afcs there are out there or what they do. Like Warrior74 said, "Who gives a crap?". Its all about you, and i overgeneralized and was thinking too much when i asked this questions a couple days ago. I have learned that instead of asking stupid questions, go out and achieve your goals, and have fun. Once you stop thinking and giving a crap about AFCs, and start having fun and doing, the things you learn actually start making sense, and thats when the real fun begins.... when you start going on adventures instead of thinking of scenarios and asking questions. Thanks guys, this is only the beginning :D

P.S Warrior74 and Alle Gory, thank you!, they were dumb questions, ::up:
 

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Azudragon said:
Hi. I am Azudragon and i am new to Sosuave.net, but have been learning from this site for many months.. This is my first post. I have just finished reading DJ Bootcamp, Dj Bible, and the Book of Pook, and have read a couple of books about dating and seduction for the past year and i have seen myself become the "king of my own kingdom" thanks to you guys. i am a beginner don juan,( above rafc). :rockon: I have several questions;

1). I am curious, around what percentage of males between 18-30 are AFCs?

2.) Around What percentage of males in this age group put away there ego, pride, and status and take the time to learn about women and improve their skills?

3.) As a Don Juan, should you help AFCs in real life improve there game, or should you treat your game as a sacred art and keep it secret because you worked hard to learn and improve it, only revealed and talked about to other Don Juans ?

4.) When you have the ability to attract most beautiful girls really easily by having a magnetic personality, and a couple of them are chasing you at once, how do stay grounded and not let this ability make you think you own the world, and that you are all that?

5.) Last question, do AFCs make getting a single woman's attention and attraction easier or harder, since they are usually the majority of guys chasing her ?
1.) Enough to leave open plenty of women to us

2.) Not many. Almost everyone learns through experience. You'll find guys who have been with more women tend to know how they work all the better (obviously)

3.) Are these AFCs friends? Sometimes it doesn't hurt to drop a few lines of advice to a friend, but you'll find that most guys are just stubborn. They need to fall 100 times before they change their way. So no, I don't really waste my time with giving advice unless they are seeking it.

4.) Getting women isn't all that life is about. Just because you pull women every night doesn't mean I respect or like you.

5.) Easier? Duh?
 

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Azudragon said:
I ended playing minigolf with a HB 7.5 latina brunette, ( with lots of kino and teasing of the "Im better than you at minigolf " variety), and i saw the movie Eagle Eye with a HB 7 blackhaired asian, and went on a walk at the park we played catch we kissed at the swings.
I have realized that asking this questions was pretty much worthless. :crackup: It doesnt matter how many Afcs there are out there or what they do.
Exactly. Goon on you man. :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Reflecting.....

Ah, my first post. I wrote this when i was a newbie Don Juan, and was analytical and unfamiliar about girls. I remember alle gory gave me bad rep and made me read the dj bible again, and i was mad because i didn't get the "who cares" attitude. I understand it now, Let me answer each question again.

1. Doesn't matter, go approach and have fun. AFCs are more common than lower prices at Walmart thou.

2. Doesn't matter, go approach and have fun. The ones that want to become a better person

3. Give them pointers, but don't do it for the ego boost or validation, but because you care that they do good. No guru complex, its not cool

4. Go do other things in life, yes it maybe hard to believe, but girls shouldn't be your whole world. You only need to be grounded if you use them as an ego boost.

5. Who cares. A guy is having the time of his life as you read this. Go be that guy and go approach. Make them get wet without spilling water!



I think we all should all go to our first post, and laugh at what you wrote with your new mindset


Azudragon said:
I took a couple of days to reread the Book of Pook again, after reading these helpful comments, especially Warrior74s and Alle Gorys. I decided to approach girls everywhere i went, at the mall, at the supermarket, even whaen i had to take my borther to Chuckie Cheese, ( there was some 18+ bored girls there with family). After approching a couple dozen girls,I ended up getting a couple numbers, and long story short. I ended playing minigolf with a HB 7.5 latina brunette, ( with lots of kino and teasing of the "Im better than you at minigolf " variety), and i saw the movie Eagle Eye with a HB 7 blackhaired asian, and went on a walk at the park we played catch we kissed at the swings.
I have realized that asking this questions was pretty much worthless. :crackup: It doesnt matter how many Afcs there are out there or what they do. Like Warrior74 said, "Who gives a crap?". Its all about you, and i overgeneralized and was thinking too much when i asked this questions a couple days ago. I have learned that instead of asking stupid questions, go out and achieve your goals, and have fun. Once you stop thinking and giving a crap about AFCs, and start having fun and doing, the things you learn actually start making sense, and thats when the real fun begins.... when you start going on adventures instead of thinking of scenarios and asking questions. Thanks guys, this is only the beginning :D

P.S Warrior74 and Alle Gory, thank you!, they were dumb questions, ::up:
Im glad i started approaching. Guys its worth it. Get out of your comfort zone and go brave the elements

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