"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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5 Big MYTHS About Women/Girls

Robert Jordon

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I think it's about time someone busted up a few myths about women and the way the act!
Beware of the following Myths concerning women:

MYTH#1: Most women are sweet and generous.
*TRUTH*: 90+% Of women are only sweet and generous after you have passed there little "tests"

MYTH #2: Women rarely ever cheat on their boyfriends.
*Truth*: It is a fact, that more women cheat than men.

MYTH #3: Women act on what they say.
*Truth*: Women say one thing, and do the complete opposite!

MYTH #4: Women give more into a relationship.
*Truth*: Nope, it is us men who spend the money on the dinners and the movies. It is us men who go all out to make sure they are happy. Although once the relationship does get started, women do tend to give about the same.

MYTH #5: Women seldom abuse their boyfriends.
*Truth*: An equal amount of women verbally and physically abuse their boyfriends. The only difference is that men are to pround, and to ashamed to admit it. Whereas women tend to see abuse towards them, as an opportunity to get attention and pity from other men.


Do you have any other Myths to add? If so, post em here!

Oh and by the way, prepare to have a bunch of angry women waiting to tear your head off for exposing them and their evil ways Muhahahahaha


Rob,

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The Difference Between Winning and Losing, Is Knowing...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Adonis

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I don't care. They give me their Pu$$y, I'm a happy camper... Now that's a myth I don't want to disprove..

I know it's very blatant of me to say that, but that's the truth. Might I add that I look for quality P's. Women are people too, they have divergent personalities as us guys have....

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Myth #6 A woman who is dating you really really likes you.

'TRUTH': She could have very LOW interest but you don't see it! Because your EGO can't believe a woman would go with a guy she is not really interested in. Yea, right.

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Squy

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Myth #7
Women, unlike men, aren't sexual creatures.

Truth: They are!! Some even more than us, they just don't want to be seen upon as sluts. And they not only want sex, they want GREAT sex.
 

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Women who are 30 + years old want sex twice as much as guys do! You know why? Because they can. They want you to F*** them all night, which I have done but I am still amazed at their appetite for sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BGMan

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Originally posted by Ragnar
Women who are 30 + years old want sex twice as much as guys do! You know why? Because they can. They want you to F*** them all night, which I have done but I am still amazed at their appetite for sex.
LOL! That should bring us to Myth #8:

For a married couple to have sex once a month is normal.

Yeah, if the man turns all AFC... :rolleyes:

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Dust 2 Dust

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Myth #9: Buying a woman gifts and flowers will raise her interest level in you.

Myth #10: Being emotionally available and becoming a womans therapist will get you laid.

Myth #11: Revealing your true feelings for her will raise her interest level in you.

Myth #12: Talking about sex will raise her interest level in you.
 

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myth #10- thinking you could ever figure out a woman.
truth= just when you think you have figured one out = then she changes.
 

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bump

It has been awhile since this post was made and posted on. Anymore myths anyone can think of?
 

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Oh man... search Anti-Dump's posts. They are a gold-mine!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That is what I have been doing lately. Bored with the new posts. I go for the greats.
 

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Originally posted by Robert Jordon
MYTH #5: Women seldom abuse their boyfriends.
*Truth*: An equal amount of women verbally and physically abuse their boyfriends.
Funnily enough, the samaritans did a survey in the UK and found that 13% of women were physically abused in the home, compaired with 19% of males. Funny how women expect men to act cute when women hit them, but when men hit women, tis domestic abuse. :rolleyes:
 
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