"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
4th annual Anti AA Competition
- Thread starter Gray The Prince
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Masculinity
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Gray The Prince said:
Bring the challenges, my friend. The time to make a change for me is right now.
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Yeah, but I keep on approaching.Gray The Prince said:
Gray The Prince
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Unfortunately I got a strike last week, but I didn't complete the challenge anyway so it's deserved.
This weeks challenge I haven't really been able to have a real go at it so I doubt I'll be able to get it done, but we never know. I'm planning on going out tonight so will try and get some digits and report it in the morning, fortunately it's not an elimination week, so I'll still be around next week to give it a proper go again.
Gunner
Chatted up a girl in club (I had seen her once before), talked smoothly, made good contact and thought "**** this ****, I'll go for the number". Problem; my phone died. So I gave her mine, just to test out this "never give your number". And yes, she didn't text. Lovely.
Sat in the train, made eye contact with a girl. She giggled, said something, moved to a seat close to me. Started chatting, then I said next to her. She wasn't that hot, so I didn't go for the number. However, she told me: "You, young man, are going to get a lot of girls with those eyes and your fancy hair". I liked that compliment.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TheCleanPleb
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Gray The Prince
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Gladiator's Division!
You are to put everything you learned and did in the past few weeks together. Your task is to approach and number close until you get at least two numbers. This time it is required that you succeed.
Yes, this is the same as the non-elimination challenge but this time its for real.
Robyn!
Your task this week is to get a kiss close. It can be from one of your current plates that you haven't kissed yet, any of the numbers you've gotten since the comp started or it can be from an approach you make this week. I don't really care where you get it from.
Gray The Prince
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So I eventually went solo for a bit. During one of the parties I noticed an HB and her friend dancing. I walked over and took her by the hand and to be honest with you guys, I didn't really say anything to her. I let my body (for those who didn't know, I'm an ex-football player but still a serious lifter. I'm not a hardcore bodybuilder, but I'm on the right track.)
Anyway, after we grinded a bit, we began making out for a while then proceeded to hook up elsewhere.
I haven't done a lot of approaching lately thanks to school (college sophomore, almost junior) and my job, but I figured I wasn't too rusty. Turns out I was right (which doesn't come as too big of a surprise since I have been around SS for almost four years and actually learned something haha), but since my friend didn't approach any women like he claimed he was going to do before we went. (Hope I'm not being too harsh when I say that. When I was a rookie DJ, I had a lot of bravado too but i don't like it when people talk the talk but don't walk the walk.) it kinda put a damper on things, hence why I eventually went solo for a while.
Anyway, I felt that I should contribute a little something to the thread. While verbal communication is key to whether or not you succeed, nonverbal communication will either make you or break you. Fortunately, things are coming together and I should have a lot more free time this summer since I won't be taking summer classes and will bring more FRs to SS.
But enough about me, this is about the gladiators. Hope to see more from you guys this week!
Gray The Prince
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I don't, I just take their word for it. There's no way I or almost anybody else on here could possibly know if they're lying or not and even if some people ITT are lying, then they are only hurting themselves. It's actually one of the first things I say in my original post.hop On hop Off said:
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So I completed the challenge, got 2 numbers this weekend.
First number I was at the club and just end up dancing with some girl. She was from out of town, HB7.5, nice body, decent face. Danced for a bit, made out, nd got a number close. Not really interested in her too much. Don't think ima be messaging her anytime soon.
That same night after the club closed my friends and I were chilling outside on the strip and bumping into many friends and people we knew. One group we bumped into one of the girls started talking to me and somehow knew my name. I started talking to her and realized I had met her a few years back so we talked for a little. I ended up number closing and I'm going to see where I can go with that, she seems like a challenge.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.