"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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4's and 5's c*** blocking you.

mtlwlu

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Hey guys, so Im into my new semester at school, and I know girls in my classes problem is they're 4's and 5's and always sit beside me thus preventing me from working game in class and meeting the 8's - 9's in there. Anyway of avoiding them that you can think of?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GuanYu

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how are they preventing you? I doubt they sit next to you and immediately open you trying to hook up. Most college chicks don't do that.

My advice? Ignore the easy wh0res and simply talk to the ones you want after class or whenever you get the opportunity. Simple as that
 

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F*ck'em.

Sometime you've just got to be harsh. If there's some h0e stepping on your toes while your trying to dance, you tell them to back away. I don't care if she's a 10. The fact that these girls aren't on your level is even more reason to start focusing on more promising opportunities.

One thing I've found is that girls don't really CARE when you diss other girls. In fact, they actually like it a lot of the time. It shows you have a sense of value and aren't taking sh!t just because she's a female.

Now, I'm not saying go out there and start talking trash on 4's and 5's, but if they're ruining your chances at other opportunities, move them out of the way. For good.
 

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How are they salting your game? I think you may be missing the bigger picture. If you ignore the 8's and 9's and talk to the 5's and 6's or the older married lady or whoever, the 8's and 9's will wonder why you're not talking to them. Make all the girls in the class like you, not just the hottest ones.

Best thing to do is to talk to a 9 and break rapport and start talking to a 5 and totally ignoring the 9. Even if she talks to you pretend like you don't hear and if she presses just give her really simple uninterested answers, while acting lie the uglier girl is the only girl in the room (excited and enthusiastic responses). That's how you build value, not by chatting with them and sitting next to them all the time, and value is the key to attraction, especially in college.
 

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Ollie said:
How are they salting your game? I think you may be missing the bigger picture. If you ignore the 8's and 9's and talk to the 5's and 6's or the older married lady or whoever, the 8's and 9's will wonder why you're not talking to them. Make all the girls in the class like you, not just the hottest ones.

Best thing to do is to talk to a 9 and break rapport and start talking to a 5 and totally ignoring the 9. Even if she talks to you pretend like you don't hear and if she presses just give her really simple uninterested answers, while acting lie the uglier girl is the only girl in the room (excited and enthusiastic responses). That's how you build value, not by chatting with them and sitting next to them all the time, and value is the key to attraction, especially in college.
I tend to agree with this. If you treat everyone the same they'll see that you're really just an outgoing, social person. And they'll wonder why you're not interested in them.

This has worked really well for me in the past. A girl has to feel jealous when she sees an attractive dude talking to every girl in the class EXCEPT her. Something eventually will come up that will give you a reason to talk to her. Make a great first impression, then when you go back to ignoring them they'll wonder why they don't have your attention.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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