white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Jayer said:
April 1st?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
48 Laws Of Power & The Art Of Seduction
- Thread starter Sayajin_Prince
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April 1st?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BuildingSomethingBig
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My God, you are guys are like a bunch of women. You've been talking about when to start this for months. How about someone reads the god damn books, posts their thoughts on the first chapter, and then people can join in the discussion when they have time to. For fcuk sake. If a youngster like me has to come in here and tell you grown men what's what, you have bigger problems than seduction.
One of the questions asked to Robert Greene in an interview.
Sonshi.com: A criticism of your books is the ideas you propose are "without scruples." Amoral is perhaps a better description. What is your response to these critics?
Greene: Well, I use the word amoral to describe them, as opposed to immoral. I try to look at the various subjects (power, seduction and war) with as dispassionate an eye as possible. This is human nature, I say, and this is how it operates in conflict, or when it is threatened, etc. Sometimes we humans do things that are bad, in order to get power—we hurt others. Sometimes we get power in ways that are not at all harmful. Here is the full panoply of stratagems, manipulations, maneuvers. You can look at them and decide for yourself—"this is too evil for me, but I am glad I know about it." A lot of the book is deliberately defensive, in the sense that it arms you with knowledge, so that you can understand the manipulations of those around you.
For instance, in Hollywood, I was a frequent victim of Law #7: Get others to do the work for you but always take the credit. Half the reason I wrote this chapter was to make people more aware of how this could happen to them and to take defensive measures. I get a lot of feedback from people who have told me how much the book has helped them in this way. They would never use some of the harsher strategies I talk about, but they are very glad to know the games others are playing on them.
I treat readers as adults. Instead of preaching to them about what they should or should not do, I lay it out for them, and I let them decide what is useful and what is not. I cannot deny there are people out there who might use these ideas for bad purposes, but what are you going to do? I think it is better to reveal the power game in all of its amoral reality and let happen what happens.
I also make the point, in the WAR book (and also in POWER) that power has traditionally been something reserved for elites. Elites have always objected to knowledge being given to the masses. Military strategy is the most elite form of knowledge that there is. Soldiers were taught tactics. It was too dangerous to allow them to get their hands on books on strategy. They could use this valuable information to foment revolution. People still think the same way, but for different reasons. I want a level playing field and everyone to be armed with the art of war.
My books have been very popular in the African-American community. They appreciate knowing how people have used power in the past, often against them. They want to know how the game is played, in as realistic a fashion as possible. They want the truth. I find those who rail against my books often have a lot of personal issues, and are generally people who can be classified as quite manipulative, in the passive aggressive mode.
Sonshi.com: A criticism of your books is the ideas you propose are "without scruples." Amoral is perhaps a better description. What is your response to these critics?
Greene: Well, I use the word amoral to describe them, as opposed to immoral. I try to look at the various subjects (power, seduction and war) with as dispassionate an eye as possible. This is human nature, I say, and this is how it operates in conflict, or when it is threatened, etc. Sometimes we humans do things that are bad, in order to get power—we hurt others. Sometimes we get power in ways that are not at all harmful. Here is the full panoply of stratagems, manipulations, maneuvers. You can look at them and decide for yourself—"this is too evil for me, but I am glad I know about it." A lot of the book is deliberately defensive, in the sense that it arms you with knowledge, so that you can understand the manipulations of those around you.
For instance, in Hollywood, I was a frequent victim of Law #7: Get others to do the work for you but always take the credit. Half the reason I wrote this chapter was to make people more aware of how this could happen to them and to take defensive measures. I get a lot of feedback from people who have told me how much the book has helped them in this way. They would never use some of the harsher strategies I talk about, but they are very glad to know the games others are playing on them.
I treat readers as adults. Instead of preaching to them about what they should or should not do, I lay it out for them, and I let them decide what is useful and what is not. I cannot deny there are people out there who might use these ideas for bad purposes, but what are you going to do? I think it is better to reveal the power game in all of its amoral reality and let happen what happens.
I also make the point, in the WAR book (and also in POWER) that power has traditionally been something reserved for elites. Elites have always objected to knowledge being given to the masses. Military strategy is the most elite form of knowledge that there is. Soldiers were taught tactics. It was too dangerous to allow them to get their hands on books on strategy. They could use this valuable information to foment revolution. People still think the same way, but for different reasons. I want a level playing field and everyone to be armed with the art of war.
My books have been very popular in the African-American community. They appreciate knowing how people have used power in the past, often against them. They want to know how the game is played, in as realistic a fashion as possible. They want the truth. I find those who rail against my books often have a lot of personal issues, and are generally people who can be classified as quite manipulative, in the passive aggressive mode.
"I wrote this chapter was to make people more aware of how this could happen to them and to take defensive measures. I get a lot of feedback from people who have told me how much the book has helped them in this way. They would never use some of the harsher strategies I talk about, but they are very glad to know the games others are playing on them."
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
How about May 1st. We'll make it a stern date. I will continue to bump this thread up until then and collect the attendance. Then we will start a new thread.
Latinoman: Thanks for the Robert Greene comments. Its obvious he is trying to justify his writings. How do u feel about his explanations latino?
Latinoman: Thanks for the Robert Greene comments. Its obvious he is trying to justify his writings. How do u feel about his explanations latino?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
white sox bill
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white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
Maybe we should start a thread on when to start?
rakishness
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Should I buy the 33 strategies book? I loved the 48 laws so much...I'm thinking about it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
6-heads lewis
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i havent read the thread, but ive read 75% of laws of power, 50% of art of seduction and 36.5479% of 33 strategies of war.
AOS sucks. If you want to lean how to seduce a countess in 1649 then go ahead and read it. Try applying these long and drawn-out schemes to a girl in an NYC bar. Im angry at myself for wasting money on this junk. I shouldve spent it on protein.
the only sections i enjoyed were the sections on types of people you can seduce, characteristics of anti-seductive people, essence of charm and charisma, etc. But even these chapters were filled with nonsense and extremely vague ideas that require an absurd amount of time and effort, like staging carnivals and sh_t
48 laws of power is great, though again not entirely practical. In our fast-paced society many of the examples just dont translate, though its still a great read. good examples on how to carry yourself, not talking too much, sizing up your environment, not being cheap, playing dumb, not bragging, etc.
33 srtategies of war was amazing for the first few chapters, very motivational and great at changing your outlook on life. some of the strategies ive read work in many instances, especially dirty warfare, but some of the strategies suffer from the same problems as the other two books - impracticality.
If you read anything, read the first 1/5 or so of '33 strategies of war', the sections of mentality and and internal warfare, its absolutely amazing.
AOS sucks. If you want to lean how to seduce a countess in 1649 then go ahead and read it. Try applying these long and drawn-out schemes to a girl in an NYC bar. Im angry at myself for wasting money on this junk. I shouldve spent it on protein.
the only sections i enjoyed were the sections on types of people you can seduce, characteristics of anti-seductive people, essence of charm and charisma, etc. But even these chapters were filled with nonsense and extremely vague ideas that require an absurd amount of time and effort, like staging carnivals and sh_t
48 laws of power is great, though again not entirely practical. In our fast-paced society many of the examples just dont translate, though its still a great read. good examples on how to carry yourself, not talking too much, sizing up your environment, not being cheap, playing dumb, not bragging, etc.
33 srtategies of war was amazing for the first few chapters, very motivational and great at changing your outlook on life. some of the strategies ive read work in many instances, especially dirty warfare, but some of the strategies suffer from the same problems as the other two books - impracticality.
If you read anything, read the first 1/5 or so of '33 strategies of war', the sections of mentality and and internal warfare, its absolutely amazing.
rakishness
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THANX. I plan on buying it tomorrow.
I just found an interview with Robert Greene. I love this quote. And I think all of us can relate to this.
"TM: So your favorite is Napoleon--what puts him above the others?
RG: He had this period of ten years, 1796 - 1806, where he was involved in almost constant warfare, one campaign after another, and he won them all. And this for a man who was young, and relatively inexperienced as a leader. An unprecedented ten years in warfare, but he not only defeated the opposition, he absolutely obliterated and annihilated them and not because of superior technology or numbers, but because of superior strategy. What was great about Napoleon was that he had a feel for war so he could be in the midst of a very chaotic battle where something went wrong, where everything went wrong, and if you know warfare at that period, it was incredibly chaotic and unpredictable. He would never lose his cool, he had an incredible presence of mind and he was able to think in the moment. His philosophy in life, one I ascribe to, was to say that nothing that happens is bad, or worth despairing. Everything that seems bad contains the seed of the opposite, an opportunity, a turnaround. He was the supreme opportunist. So in a battle like Austerlitz, which is probably the greatest battle of his career and my favorite, everything went wrong, and it looked like he was going to be crushed--he was surrounded, he was in the worst possible position. And he turned that into his greatest victory ever by playing upon his opponent's arrogance and over confidence. I think that's genius, to never lose your cool, because things are always going to go bad or wrong and anybody would wilt under that pressure and this man, Napoleon, not only did not wilt, he was at his best."
Those words are very inspiring. I can link the whole interview if any of you guys want?
I just found an interview with Robert Greene. I love this quote. And I think all of us can relate to this.
"TM: So your favorite is Napoleon--what puts him above the others?
RG: He had this period of ten years, 1796 - 1806, where he was involved in almost constant warfare, one campaign after another, and he won them all. And this for a man who was young, and relatively inexperienced as a leader. An unprecedented ten years in warfare, but he not only defeated the opposition, he absolutely obliterated and annihilated them and not because of superior technology or numbers, but because of superior strategy. What was great about Napoleon was that he had a feel for war so he could be in the midst of a very chaotic battle where something went wrong, where everything went wrong, and if you know warfare at that period, it was incredibly chaotic and unpredictable. He would never lose his cool, he had an incredible presence of mind and he was able to think in the moment. His philosophy in life, one I ascribe to, was to say that nothing that happens is bad, or worth despairing. Everything that seems bad contains the seed of the opposite, an opportunity, a turnaround. He was the supreme opportunist. So in a battle like Austerlitz, which is probably the greatest battle of his career and my favorite, everything went wrong, and it looked like he was going to be crushed--he was surrounded, he was in the worst possible position. And he turned that into his greatest victory ever by playing upon his opponent's arrogance and over confidence. I think that's genius, to never lose your cool, because things are always going to go bad or wrong and anybody would wilt under that pressure and this man, Napoleon, not only did not wilt, he was at his best."
Those words are very inspiring. I can link the whole interview if any of you guys want?
Buck Rogers
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can i have the link please rakish
yes please ^^
yes please ^^
rakishness
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This is from his blog. Tucker Max is the one doing the interview. It is a three page interview. The quote is from part 2 which is on.........Buck Rogers said:
http://www.powerseductionandwar.com/archives/the_robert_gree_1.phtml
ENJOY!!!!
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
may 1st!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
just bumping this up to see if we can get more volunteers. Study starts in a month!
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Ok May 1st approaching soon. Here is the current roster for the study. Anyone else who wants in please reply to this thread. We will create a seperate thread for the study.
Jayer (me)
White Sox Bill
Microphone Fiend
Black Jackal
Latinoman
SkillzthatKillz
LegendBoy
seagull
Jayer (me)
White Sox Bill
Microphone Fiend
Black Jackal
Latinoman
SkillzthatKillz
LegendBoy
seagull
white sox bill
Senior Don Juan
How 'bout roll call this weekend?Jayer said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.