"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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48 laws of power by greene

john_1234

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anyone read this book? it's thick and i don't want to waste my time. would i gain anything from it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nah, don't read it..

as a matter of fact, don't read any books. Why bother since they are all thick and stuff? Such a waste of time. Just watch lots of TV and you'll be fine.
 

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lol, read it!!! Its pretty good so far. I read it every few nights. Maybe pick up his other book too, the Art of Seduction. I have both of them, my mom got the art of seduction and I have the 48 laws of power as a E book, that I downloaded. :p Get lime wire and download a whole bunch of crap.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
nah, don't read it..

as a matter of fact, don't read any books. Why bother since they are all thick and stuff? Such a waste of time. Just watch lots of TV and you'll be fine.
LOL

I wanted to say something like that, you quick clever bastard :p

"...since they are all thick and stuff" LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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