"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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40-something single mommy says men her age who want younger women are "messed up"

MatureDJ

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I’m a 42 year old single mom who is very attractive (I look about 7 years younger), fun, has a great smile and laugh (and does both a LOT), emotionally stable, and not looking to race to the altar. And I definitely fit the definition of a “cool chick” – and my guy friends will confirm:).”

Unfortunately, the pool of men that I’m dating from (early to mid 40s, usually divorced) are pretty messed up. A number of them want younger women (never mind that I look much younger) – didn’t anyone tell these guys that women hit their sexual prime over 40:)?
my opinion: I'll bet that in this harridan's maiden days, some short man tried to hit on her and she rejected him; should thIS short man have simply blamed that rejection on the fact that she was "messed up" in wanting tall men? CROCODILE TEARS, HONEY!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who Dares Win

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Most people who say that they look younger usually dont anyway lets pretend its real.

She is 42-7=35...nice you look like you just hit the wall how can such men not realize how a great deal you are right?

Single mom itself weight as 5 yrs more in terms of total calculation, since you count my hair and height as score dont be offended if I do the same except that Im not taller cause some other woman pulled me down like it happened for your loose pvssy.

Somebody should say that its not just a matter how look (which is important) but the fact that usually women the more they age the more they are used and abused and translate such facts in everyday behaviour.

A 20yrs old car with a well kept bodywork still has 20yrs old brakes and engine given that it was driven for so long....and hardly it was owned from a single guy who kept it in a garage.
 

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somebody is trying to justify a LACK of attention.

women hate on other women for a reason; they know the clock is ticking and those young(er) girls look better.

the tears she has are probably directly proportional to the number of guys she rejected bc of dumb requirements.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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Its not men or society it's biology. Men want to screw attractive potentially fertile women. Its hardwired in.

After all, there are no such thing as "cougars". No woman has ever chosen to sleep with someone with a big age disparity.
 
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