"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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4 prior bangs have married in past year

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whoa, so over the past year I've learned that 4, count 'em, 4 of the chicks I banged in 2008 (1 was actually in late 2007) have gotten married within the past year. And from what I can tell all the dudes are guys whom the girls started dating immediately after myself. Like Good Luck Chuck. Weird.

None of the girls was anyone I wanted to marry of course, so I'm not upset, but it's still pretty weird. I see the wedding photos and say to myself, "That girl had my d/ck in her mouth." Funny.

Reminds me of that Willie Nelson song...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My recent ex was married and knocked up 2 months after we broke up. And my ex before her was knocked up with the guy she banged after me.

What does it mean?
 
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Lol yeah that happened to me in 2008, 3 chicks I banged that year got married by 2009. The scary bit... all three of them were divorced by 2010 :(
 
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I don't know, but I think it shows just how desperate women are to get hitched. I have a feeling that I could have married any of the chicks I've banged in the past 5 years if I'd had the least interest in doing so.

I think it also shows that there are a lot of desperate guys out there who are willing to marry chicks who will f/ck them. The 4 girls I refer to above are not "catches" by any means. They range from 5s to 7s and had nice personalities and all but were nobody I wanted to marry. And the guys they married were fairly attractive guys.

Also, all of the women were fatter in their wedding photos than when I banged them. Strange days.
 
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haha i know exactly what you mean, man! except it's been the past 7 chicks for me. they either start dating some dude for a short while and end up getting knocked up by him, date for a year or so and get engaged/married, meet a guy in less then a week after we stop hanging out and end up dating that guy for a long time. it's weird how they'll have their fun for me and the next guy they get all serious with. acctually now i seem to be running into the girls that have had their fun and want something serious or get married....no thanks! you know, the girls who have slutted around all their lives and now use the "i'm not having sex til i get married" line.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How old are these girls you guys speak of?
 
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A woman can get dik anytime, anywhere, anyhow with a simple order. Even a married woman! I banged one and the next day she acted like I didn't exist. Then there were some women I tried to hook up with who showed high interest and then got serious with someone else the next day.
 
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I once met a girl while on vacation who I had sex with who turned out to be engaged. She was there with her grilfriends. Told me she was just out for a fling before she got married.

She got married that same weekend. I felt sorta used when she told me that. But not as used as that poor, clueless guy she married though. Heh
 
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Ever seen Good Luck Chuck? work it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've had two fat female friends of mine (that were both total svlts when I knew them years ago) get married in the last few years. Both to nice, pretty handsome salt of the earth kind of guys. If they only knew what I know...good Lord.
 
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They panic and get hitched to lock down the first guy that's of an acceptable level. I watched 2 chicks (mid-late 20s) who were actually after me, get pregnant literally a few months after getting dumped. I thought it was funny as hell how they both did the same exact thing, and yes they both had gained weight prior to.
 
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One of the drama queen I dated about 6 or so years ago got married to the next guy she dated after we broke up. After the break up, I was so happy to get back my freedom. She was a crazy b!tch. When I heard that she was getting married, the only words that came to mind was: One man's trash is another man's treasure.

I don't normally insult people but she was that bad.
 
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Tazman said:
They panic and get hitched to lock down the first guy that's of an acceptable level. I watched 2 chicks (mid-late 20s) who were actually after me, get pregnant literally a few months after getting dumped. I thought it was funny as hell how they both did the same exact thing, and yes they both had gained weight prior to.
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This.

When they're seriously "into" a guy and it doesn't work out, they often rush into something just to prove to themselves that they can do it.

It rarely has anything to do with YOU, specifically.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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...and in a few years you will go and have a drink at the four girls divorce party. lol
 
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