"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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4 Approach Invitations In One Minute

NorPacWolf

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I'm posting this FR, inspired by a couple of threads in which guys have asked the age-old question: "does this chick like me?" Let's put it this way: if your curiosity is aroused enough to ask, she almost certainly is. Even if she isn't, just assuming that she is will give you a boost of self confidence. This confidence in turn can generate attraction even if the chick wasn't initially attracted in the first place. Trust me, many of you have severely under-estimated the degree of female sexual interest out there....

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Sat. night/Sun. morning at some club:

...The topic line says it all. I was lollygagging around a club, really burned out and tired just before closing. I hadn't approached any chicks. I was thinking of bed, but not because of sex, but because I wanted to get some sleep.

I'm hanging out by the bar, watching the talent flow out. A very drunk blonde, big bottomed girl (cute face, but big-bottomed) is about to roll out, hand-in-hand with her date. She stops directly in front of me, gives me a big smile and says: "heeeey, preeeetty!" She just stands there, eyes half closed, mouth wide open, gawking at me. Her date is pulling her by the hand towards the door, but she won't budge. I'm taken aback by her directness. She finally leaves after I stand and stare and say nothing.

Another girl rolls by. I catch her staring at me out of the corner of my eye. She continues staring as she walks out.

Then another girl does exactly the same thing.

A fourth girl now, same reaction.

I found this to be very strange as I had been at the club for nearly an hour, and not a single girl had AI'ed me during that time. Now that they were ready to leave, I get them in bunches.

I ask my wing what's up with all these AI's. He says: "that means these girls are saying you didn't have the balls to approach." Uuuuh, ok, lol.

Moral of the story: assume *every* girl in the room is attracted to you. You may not be far from the truth.


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BuckwildNYC

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Shezz said:
Dont WAIT -- INITIATE!!!

Sarge On...

Oooo I like that..............It rhymes with my "Don't hate.....Congratulate" or my "Don't Spectate......Participate".............umm I had another but I forgot it
 
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