"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorPacWolf

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I'm posting this FR, inspired by a couple of threads in which guys have asked the age-old question: "does this chick like me?" Let's put it this way: if your curiosity is aroused enough to ask, she almost certainly is. Even if she isn't, just assuming that she is will give you a boost of self confidence. This confidence in turn can generate attraction even if the chick wasn't initially attracted in the first place. Trust me, many of you have severely under-estimated the degree of female sexual interest out there....

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Sat. night/Sun. morning at some club:

...The topic line says it all. I was lollygagging around a club, really burned out and tired just before closing. I hadn't approached any chicks. I was thinking of bed, but not because of sex, but because I wanted to get some sleep.

I'm hanging out by the bar, watching the talent flow out. A very drunk blonde, big bottomed girl (cute face, but big-bottomed) is about to roll out, hand-in-hand with her date. She stops directly in front of me, gives me a big smile and says: "heeeey, preeeetty!" She just stands there, eyes half closed, mouth wide open, gawking at me. Her date is pulling her by the hand towards the door, but she won't budge. I'm taken aback by her directness. She finally leaves after I stand and stare and say nothing.

Another girl rolls by. I catch her staring at me out of the corner of my eye. She continues staring as she walks out.

Then another girl does exactly the same thing.

A fourth girl now, same reaction.

I found this to be very strange as I had been at the club for nearly an hour, and not a single girl had AI'ed me during that time. Now that they were ready to leave, I get them in bunches.

I ask my wing what's up with all these AI's. He says: "that means these girls are saying you didn't have the balls to approach." Uuuuh, ok, lol.

Moral of the story: assume *every* girl in the room is attracted to you. You may not be far from the truth.


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BuckwildNYC

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Shezz said:
Dont WAIT -- INITIATE!!!

Sarge On...

Oooo I like that..............It rhymes with my "Don't hate.....Congratulate" or my "Don't Spectate......Participate".............umm I had another but I forgot it
 
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