"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3yr relationship now ending

drak_ool

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GameTime76 said:
UPDATE
I have a whole new out look on this. I dont care any more and feel free again.
that s exactly how I felt after my last break up. Use your freedom wisely and don't give it up for the first hottie that comes your way...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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GameTime76 said:
UPDATE

I have a update if anyone is interested...

She came over today (suprising) and actually gave me some rent money for the last 2 weeks we were together.

It was a clean goodbye. No arguments or expressing are feelings. She talked a little bit about what her plans are. such as getting her own place and having her sister move up her and ect. I said, good for you and told her a little bit about what I'll be doing. Then, I just switched the subject and started talking about something other than this.
I'm interested. That's PERFECT man! Keep it up.

I'm glad to see you're on the path to getting what you want and deserve instead of falling into the easy way out "women are biatches, **** it, I'll become an animal". It hurts, I know, we all know, but you're being forged in fire and when you look back on this later you'll see that you've evolved in a big way compared to what you would have become because you took the more difficult road.

Cheers and happy xmas and all that. Keep evolving, it's a never ending path.

PS: Save and/or print this thread and look at it in a year. You'll be amazed at what you think. I promise.
 
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