"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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3some - Have any of you had one?

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Your advice actually might be spot on..
I agree...doing this with pros will be fun, and not too attached to your life afterwards, other than the thrill you had!

But if you engage in this with two women outside the profession- much less, women that you know personally, there is quite a chance it will backfire on you, or the girls, or all of you in the future. Nobody needs that.

But frankly, I'm all for it! Go hire a couple of strippers, and have a very wonderful night!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think it's important to note what a 3-some is to different people.

I'm still looking for a true 3-some although I've had "3-somes" on 3 different occasions in my lifetime. For me a true 3-some is where the girls are also genuinely into each other and eating each other out and really like other women. The 3 times I had a 3-some was really me or them just taking turns but no real genuine desire/synergy between all three of us. The third experience was the closest where one gal was truly bisexual and into it but the other gal only wanted to be eaten out and not eat the other girl out.

Surprisingly, there were a decent amount of gals that were open to trying a 3-some but I just couldn't find the third in time before things ended. Also some girls that are open to a 3-some had high standards for the girl they wanted to bring in. Surprise, surprise. LOL
 

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As someone who has paid for many threesomes in cash, I can say that however wild a time you have, afterwards you feel next to nothing. No real sense of achievement, just hopefully a calm satisfaction.

I've had more mediocre experiences than not. Either the girls weren't into each other, or one of them was a total b!tch, or they wouldn't allow the sort of depravity that civvies (girls you don't pay) would normally jump at the chance to (s)exercise, etc, etc.

In February though I paid two Russian identical twins for a couple hours of their time. Taller than me, very busty. An itch I've always felt compelled to scratch ever since I developed a twoitis for identical twins way back in 2008, and having crushed on other twins since.

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They were wild and eager to outdo each other. Vigorous three way rimming, mutual choking, biting & slapping, face fvcking, anal, everything except watersports which they didn't do. I shared the same condoms between them both. I brought a can of squirty whipped cream along but they wouldn't go for it; "vee aff to votch our veight".

I was absolutely knackered afterwards, and my wallet was lighter, but I won't deny I had a gratifying time. And yes, after those two hours were up I had a favourite. Slightly shorter, cuter face, softer ass, meatier labia, unshaved too. Not quite as busty as her twin though. I cvmmed on her face and watched her sister lick it up before they kissed. Then we all crammed ourselves into their shower together. I went for Naples' biggest pizza afterwards. 16 incher.

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TLDR: you can have a fun time if you pay but it'd be a lot more fun if you didn't pay.
 

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I think it's important to note what a 3-some is to different people.

I'm still looking for a true 3-some although I've had "3-somes" on 3 different occasions in my lifetime. For me a true 3-some is where the girls are also genuinely into each other and eating each other out and really like other women. The 3 times I had a 3-some was really me or them just taking turns but no real genuine desire/synergy between all three of us. The third experience was the closest where one gal was truly bisexual and into it but the other gal only wanted to be eaten out and not eat the other girl out.

Surprisingly, there were a decent amount of gals that were open to trying a 3-some but I just couldn't find the third in time before things ended. Also some girls that are open to a 3-some had high standards for the girl they wanted to bring in. Surprise, surprise. LOL
That's a good description and you're right it could mean different things. Outside of porn where can this be found?

Still awesome you had those other experiences. The closest I had was two strippers giving me a lap dance, they kissed and licked each other... they took turns grabbing my junk while I sucked their titties.. it was kind of hot but these girls were kinda trashy lol

As someone who has paid for many threesomes in cash, I can say that however wild a time you have, afterwards you feel next to nothing. No real sense of achievement, just hopefully a calm satisfaction.

I've had more mediocre experiences than not. Either the girls weren't into each other, or one of them was a total b!tch, or they wouldn't allow the sort of depravity that civvies (girls you don't pay) would normally jump at the chance to (s)exercise, etc, etc.

In February though I paid two Russian identical twins for a couple hours of their time. Taller than me, very busty. An itch I've always felt compelled to scratch ever since I developed a twoitis for identical twins way back in 2008, and having crushed on other twins since.

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They were wild and eager to outdo each other. Vigorous three way rimming, mutual choking, biting & slapping, face fvcking, anal, everything except watersports which they didn't do. I shared the same condoms between them both. I brought a can of squirty whipped cream along but they wouldn't go for it; "vee aff to votch our veight".

I was absolutely knackered afterwards, and my wallet was lighter, but I won't deny I had a gratifying time. And yes, after those two hours were up I had a favourite. Slightly shorter, cuter face, softer ass, meatier labia, unshaved too. Not quite as busty as her twin though. I cvmmed on her face and watched her sister lick it up before they kissed. Then we all crammed ourselves into their shower together. I went for Naples' biggest pizza afterwards. 16 incher.

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TLDR: you can have a fun time if you pay but it'd be a lot more fun if you didn't pay.
How much did this cost you? lol
 

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600 Euros for two hours. I justified it because my SMV is cratered right now and because twins turn me on. It's only money. But yes, afterwards I wasn't "over the moon" or any Disney shít like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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