Is it weird to start sitting next to random girls in class, getting to know them, talking to them etc on the 3rd week of class. I've just been coming to class and sitting down and then leaving so far. I feel like I should have done this the first couple of days when it was more normal?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
3rd week @ university too late to sit next to randoms in class?
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Simple reply:
Just do it.
Just do it.
kingsam
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its never too late ever .... many good openers you could
be seen by the others interacting (boys and girls) and being social, giving VALUE....
be seen by the others interacting (boys and girls) and being social, giving VALUE....
Never too late. Usually I get to know the people in the class later on, when you all have shared experiences, rather than superficial start-of-the-year bs chit-chat. You can talk to -anyone- after the midterm or the hard assignment, because you all just went through it. Then turn it into how you have free time finally, so you're having a party... Or whatever. The other day my notes got printed out all weird for some reason. I saw this girl beside me that had the same issue. So I was like "yours too?"
Never too late to talk to the people beside you.
Never too late to talk to the people beside you.
It's definitely not too late. Possible lines for breaking the ice are:
"How do you think of this class so far?"
"Hey, did you study for the midterm?"
"Hey, how do you think you did on the quiz?"
"I missed the lecture on Tuesday. Did you get what the professor said about chapter 5?"
"Do you have a partner for the project yet?"
etc.
"How do you think of this class so far?"
"Hey, did you study for the midterm?"
"Hey, how do you think you did on the quiz?"
"I missed the lecture on Tuesday. Did you get what the professor said about chapter 5?"
"Do you have a partner for the project yet?"
etc.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I just started talking to this chick in one of my classes last week. Never too late. Better late then never.