Is it weird to start sitting next to random girls in class, getting to know them, talking to them etc on the 3rd week of class. I've just been coming to class and sitting down and then leaving so far. I feel like I should have done this the first couple of days when it was more normal?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
3rd week @ university too late to sit next to randoms in class?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Simple reply:
Just do it.
Just do it.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
its never too late ever .... many good openers you could
be seen by the others interacting (boys and girls) and being social, giving VALUE....
be seen by the others interacting (boys and girls) and being social, giving VALUE....
Never too late. Usually I get to know the people in the class later on, when you all have shared experiences, rather than superficial start-of-the-year bs chit-chat. You can talk to -anyone- after the midterm or the hard assignment, because you all just went through it. Then turn it into how you have free time finally, so you're having a party... Or whatever. The other day my notes got printed out all weird for some reason. I saw this girl beside me that had the same issue. So I was like "yours too?"
Never too late to talk to the people beside you.
Never too late to talk to the people beside you.
It's definitely not too late. Possible lines for breaking the ice are:
"How do you think of this class so far?"
"Hey, did you study for the midterm?"
"Hey, how do you think you did on the quiz?"
"I missed the lecture on Tuesday. Did you get what the professor said about chapter 5?"
"Do you have a partner for the project yet?"
etc.
"How do you think of this class so far?"
"Hey, did you study for the midterm?"
"Hey, how do you think you did on the quiz?"
"I missed the lecture on Tuesday. Did you get what the professor said about chapter 5?"
"Do you have a partner for the project yet?"
etc.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I just started talking to this chick in one of my classes last week. Never too late. Better late then never.