"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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39 yr old meeting a 23yr old? TIPS??

RobLB

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Hello all,

I have this girl that suppossedly has seen me and wants to go out with me. From what I hear she is pretty hot. I am supposed to meet her tonight at a bar that she will be at with about 15 other girls for a birthday party. I will be bringing a wingy of course.

Any tips for an old man meeting this younger chic??

Thanks,
Lance
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexualchocolate

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dont get to attached..... u may get a lil attached to her youthful body but her immaturity will drive you insane. Im only 28 and hate dating younger women.

who knows she may be different. but remember its usually the old chap that gets dumped, just in instances ive seen.

but you da man. hope you get it.
 

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RE:

how do you know she'll be immature? The last two girls I dated where both 23-25. One was as mature as me, the other one wasnt. Im 39. It just depends on the person. You could meet someone 30 who doesnt have their sh** together and you could be a girl 24 who does. Just make sure you all are on the same page. Dont ridicule her taste or act snobbish towards her opinions but at the same time dont let her ridicule yours. Thats the only main difference I found.

The most important thing like I said is to make sure your both on the same page. Trust me I've dated several girls 10-15 years younger than me and its hit or miss.
 

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Well, I am not really looking long term, cause I just came out of an 8mo relationship that broke my heart. It's been a 2mo dry spell for me. It's just gonna be fun getting out and meeting new women even if they are in their 20's. Cause I know if I think I'm gonna get some it probably won't happen so I'll have to play it cool. I know one thing it's gonna be tough staying out all night for an old man like me :woo:

Thanks for the replies!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i guess ur right seldom..... my run-ins with younger girls have been terrible but i do know few......well no i dont.

i just hope im still pulling like you guys when i get 39.

think im being prejudice because i just starting dating a 34 year old and she is so intelligent. that $hit turned me on after dating girls who were more concerned with what i drove than me.

i guess i have an insecurity im not ashamed to admit. the past girlfriend i had was very intellecual, tho she was an a$$ about it. Now im know dummy, but i cant hold a conversation about the social economic structure of South Africa. Guess im a lil afraid she may get bored if her mind isnt stimulated. I dont think shes like that first b*tch i dated. shes more mature.

have you ever had a girl that u know good and dam well u dont need to be liking but u cant help it.

"I know i dont need to be, but i like ur no good tramp ass"

she is currently seperated from her husband, may be getting back together. Took a six month lease at an apt.

ive got to be careful with this one. im starting to like her too much.
but im not the first guy she has cheated on her husband with. Tho she did just start this year bc she's so fed up. Tho that doesnt prove it valid.

the fact that i know this and realize she is married helps me stay grounded. bc dam i like this tramp. hehe


she likes me bc i give her what her husband doesnt. intimacy. and conversation. he just yells at her and calls her a b*tch when she wants to talk about their relationship. And just asks her if shes ready.....if he wants sex. basically he got comfortable and lazy.

like i said she may go back.....it wont bother me too much, i just know ive raised my standards with women. and she will be one of those great ones i will always remember.
 

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Originally posted by RobLB
Hello all,

I have this girl that suppossedly has seen me and wants to go out with me. From what I hear she is pretty hot. I am supposed to meet her tonight at a bar that she will be at with about 15 other girls for a birthday party. I will be bringing a wingy of course.

Any tips for an old man meeting this younger chic??

Thanks,
Lance
Keep Your Dyck In Your Pants and Demand Money!!!
 

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LOL, my dad was 37 and had a 24 year old coming onto him. He decided that he didn't want somebody that young.

Then he was going out with another woman who looked 24. He was going to treat her like another "too young for me" girl... when she informed him he was 35, he felt like he was kicked in the gut. This second woman was my mom.

I guess the lesson here is make sure you get her age.

In my case, I'm 24, but I feel most comfortable around people who are 20-21. Those my age seem to always act more "with it" than I do. I don't feel as guilty about dating younger girls, especially since they don't seem to mind dating me.

BGMan
 
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