Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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35 yr old woman and completely delusional...

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dasein

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He's always dressed like he's about to walk into a 5-star restaurant.
And I think he's been divorced 3 times.
His overcompensation doesn't surprise me.
Maybe he's trying to lead by example among a hood thug garbage culture that has done extensive damage to the entire country for 40 years or so and immeasurable damage to the black community especially. Maybe he is aware of black male incarceration rates and single motherhood rates and wants to present more sane alternatives to young black people than what has been sold to them. Divorced three times is marginally ad hom, as he grew up before TRP.
 

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Kevin Samuels is the definition of 'tries too hard' to impress women.
Im sure the tears caused by your opinion, he will wipe away, with his monthly 14,000 Dollar Google Adsense cheque.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AureliusMaximus

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Maybe he's trying to lead by example among a hood thug garbage culture
Indeed.
Nothing wrong in being dressed sharp like an English gent in tailormade suit and tie. You can never be overdressed in that. :cool::up:

Actually btw.. There is tons of past studies that shows that if you are dressed in that people read you are more professional, they will consider you more serious and act accordingly.
 

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He's always dressed like he's about to walk into a 5-star restaurant.

And I think he's been divorced 3 times.

His overcompensation doesn't surprise me.
Yeah I agree, fashion doesn't mean much, over compensating, but you did recently make a thread stating fashion is a must, nice to see you contradicting yourself the second your purple pill butt gets all hurt
 

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The truth has been spoken for likes million times.. And she just cant accept it trying to get around it.. Lol
 

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He's always dressed like he's about to walk into a 5-star restaurant.

And I think he's been divorced 3 times.

His overcompensation doesn't surprise me.
Didn’t you tell us in several threads that dressing nice matters? Go out and buy fancy clothes?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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