"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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35+ and living with Mom, how common?

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Hi there,

My girlfriend is working on a TV series and its helping men over 35 who live at home with Mom get their independence and find their way, whether its get a job or girlfriend. Heres some info:

MEN – ARE YOU OVER 35?
DO YOU LIVE AT HOME WITH YOUR MOM?

A television production company is looking to speak to men like you for a new project in development. Maybe you feel now is the time to learn how to stand on your own two feet? Maybe your living arrangements are impacting on your love life and you feel now is the time for change? If you’d like help getting your own place and achieving your goals in life, whether it be finding love, getting a job or learning to live independently, we can help!

Blah blah blah (removed email) blah blah blah blah.

Not sure if it applies or if anyone has any friends (read some previous posts on here where this was the subject) TV isn't for everyone but heres the info all the same.

Have a nice day!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LMFAO

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Are there no moderators here to delete all this spam?
 

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I live with my mom and my wife but I bet that wouldn't fly on your TV series cause my wife is hot and my job pays a decent amount of money.

If you’d like help getting your own place and achieving your goals in life, whether it be finding love, getting a job or learning to live independently, we can help
I'm guessing you are looking for losers cause this idea doesn't apply to this forum.
 

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Living with mom where you are the dependant, not mom=kiss of death.

Same thing for woman. Not quality if depending on mom at 35.
 

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Pretty damned common with the recession of 2008 and the wives leaving the husbands because the husbands lost their jobs or the pay was cut drastically. With the wives leaving, the men have to pay the women child support and maybe alimony, all this on top of a drastically reduced wage at work because of the recession. This leads the men not being able to afford a place of their own. There is your answer, I am one of these guys, and I know about 5 other guys recently who have fallen into the same trap. There is no way out unless you go back to college to increase your pay, but then you have to pay tuition. Oh life is fun, is it not!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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latinnova said:
Pretty damned common with the recession of 2008 and the wives leaving the husbands because the husbands lost their jobs or the pay was cut drastically. With the wives leaving, the men have to pay the women child support and maybe alimony, all this on top of a drastically reduced wage at work because of the recession. This leads the men not being able to afford a place of their own. There is your answer, I am one of these guys, and I know about 5 other guys recently who have fallen into the same trap. There is no way out unless you go back to college to increase your pay, but then you have to pay tuition. Oh life is fun, is it not!
This. I know some guys in this situation also. Wait till the next fall out depression. Its definitely coming soon no doubt about it. You cannot grow in massive amounts of debt.
 

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I'm sure there are some guys out there this age that are still able to get laid
 

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I'm sure there are some guys out there this age that are still able to get laid
 

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I'm sure there are some guys out there this age that are still able to get laid
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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