"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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34 days?

mikeyb

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1) No contact means "No Contact"! It doesn't count if you break it every other day. Take no contact seriously and just stop beating yourself up over this one. Maybe eventually she'll wonder why you stopped giving her attention and come back like you hope for, even though it's a long shot.
2) Honestly, how do you think she sees you right now? Desperate, needy, and perhaps a little creepy. When in history has a woman ever gone for a man like that??
3) You wanna play games? Send her a text saying "it's cool, I met someone else, have fun with Bob". That my friend is bluffing, not what you're doing now. Not that it has a decent shot at working, but it's better than this psycho crap.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maxfarsigth

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The first time I heard of "NO CONTACT" I instantly thought to my self that it was:
NO GIVING A RATS ASS ABOUT HER UNTIL **SHE REACHES YOU** !!!

...I am convinced that it doesnt work any other way. Otherwise No Contact would be cr@p and NO ONE would use it!

At least go NO contact for 34 days it miiiight....... work........
 

sux2bu

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Boys, a true story here:

You young DJ's can learn from this, because, I am going to show you how I play my 'game' and how to get the p*****..(on your terms)

My goal here is to have her dump 'Back Door Bob' and ring my door bell and offer to give me a little 'tuna'..

Step 1:

Go 100% N.C. (No Contact) for two or three days (or whatever it takes)......

Step 2:

After a few days---contact her (talk to her) and give her 24 hours to makeup her mind if she wants to see you and work 'things out' or move on..

The key here is that you must be in 100% control of the 'your game'.......

Btw, It is a poker game and a real DJ holds all of the aces..(she does not know that)

Update:

She just told me (on the phone) to get lost and to f*** off.. Damnn

Now, you don't think that Hell on Wheels is going to give up do you?

I 'fired' right back at her a$$..

I gave her 24 hours to think about us and call me...

My goal is to jump that Tuna..

Say it ain't so.........

FYI: If you want good 'game' (with the women) the key is to keep firing back....

ie: Reload and fire.....

Hell on Wheels

That sounds EXACTLY like something Mel Gibson would say. Look where all those rants got him. :crazy:

You wanna end up like Mel?
 
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