"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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30 something virgins

Marcopolo

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And I don't mean male virgins, but women-

http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2006/09/06/virgins/index.html

are they all fat and ugly?

http://www.salon.com/mwt/broadsheet/2006/08/23/jane_virgin/index.html

I don't think this chick is-

http://imdb.com/name/nm2332636/

I never knew this existed, it seems incomprehensible to me when my current paradigm is that any HB can go down to the local night club and all she has to do is spread her legs. So how many of you guys would bang a late 20's or 30 something virgin, even if she was hot?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know of one girl who is in such a situtuation. She was at least into her late 20s. Don't know for sure whether she still is at 30, but I believe she is. She's attractive.

Girls that are attractive and virgins at 30 are either 1) very religious or 2) have issues with men and sexuality.

I'd met a girl a few years back who was cute. I overheard her say to her friend that she'd never been in a relationship. She was 26 at the time I believe. If a girl is attractive and has never been in a relationship yet alone had sex, that's a red flag like hell. Now if she's simply fat or ugly, then there's no further explanation needed. But this girl wasn't, she was actually really pretty. I decided to be open-minded and continue talking to her, but as thinks went on, I ended up finding out that she was just strange, insecure, quirky, immature and seem to have a lot of issues. Then it was clear why she never had a boyfriend.
 

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would you care to elaborate on what issues she had? I am curious. I always thought that the radical feminists who equate normal sex with rape were in fact repressed lesbians, and their real issue was that society expected them to have sex with men they had no sexual attraction to(kinda like if you were forced to have sex with big bubba in prison), and that is why they probably ended up hating men. These women in the article seem to want to have sex with men, and that is what is so strange to me.
 

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Well, she seemed to have issues trusting people it seemed to me. Almost like someone who has been burned in the past and is paranoid now. Seemed emotionally immature and child-like. And just a few other things that made me wonder if she's psycho I don't care to go into. But suffice it to say, any girl who is going into her mid 20 to 30s and is attractive yet is inexperienced with the opposite sex, you an be almost 100% sure she's a head case.

At least in the case of guys, he could be pretty normal but maybe has zero game and that's why he's unnsuccessful with the opposite sex. But with girls, it's either because they're ugly, or they've got more issues than Playboy.
 

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I agree with Speakeasy. A girl that is a virgin at 30 is either.
1)Fat
2)Ugly
3)Social reject
4)Very religious
5)Sex issues.(Health problems or sexually abused as child.
6) Stupid.


5/6 Reasons are not good reasons. Stay clear of 30 year old virgins unless it is a religious or cultural custom.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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