30 rejections in one night.

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

shrewd

Don Juan

Dec 5, 2004

thx for the replys guys, very helpful.

what do i look like? I'm pretty short (5'8), but i have a good build i guess, 175lbs w/ a 6 pack, pretty good chest and biceps...i get alot of compliments for my body. Face is nothing special, i'd call it an average face. If someone gives me their email i can send a pic to them.

Ok so from now on i'll try to build rapport first then ask to dance or get the #. The only problem with this is I get fewer approaches in one night but then again it's also a good thing because i'd be running out of fresh girls if i kept up at this rate.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.