30 rejections in one night.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

shrewd

Don Juan

Dec 5, 2004

thx for the replys guys, very helpful.

what do i look like? I'm pretty short (5'8), but i have a good build i guess, 175lbs w/ a 6 pack, pretty good chest and biceps...i get alot of compliments for my body. Face is nothing special, i'd call it an average face. If someone gives me their email i can send a pic to them.

Ok so from now on i'll try to build rapport first then ask to dance or get the #. The only problem with this is I get fewer approaches in one night but then again it's also a good thing because i'd be running out of fresh girls if i kept up at this rate.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.