30 n-count and 4 relationships later. The one most valuable thing I learned.

[TheTigerV1]

At the dawn of another relationship, I found myself reflecting on the present and the past, analysing where I did well, where I could have done better.

After all these experiences, If I had a son now and he asked me an advice regarding women I would tell him this and only this:

Love! Love without fear, give some real fatherly masculine love. If she is gonna do you wrong, It's on her. No mate guarding will ever prevent a women to misbehave. Just enjoy the experience, it's gonna be a fun ride.
BUT be always ready to stand up and leave the table the moment she shows she is not fit for a relationship. No discussion, no arguments. Explain that the behaviour she is having will prevent you for taking her seriously in a relationship, just state it, without asking anything from her. Put the ball in her court, and then be prepared to leave. No discussion. No arguments. No questions.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Yes! Always be mentally prepared that the relationship suddenly end.

 

[evan12]

agreed

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Have a back up or two always!