"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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30 is the new 50 if you're a woman

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Guys, in the dating market you have a big advantage as a man IF YOU ARE NOT A LOSER. All you have to do is let father time do his job.

If this article doesn't make you feel awesome.. I don't know what will:
http://www.xojane.com/sex/30-is-the-new-50-old-age-is-killing-my-dating-life

Feminism might suck. The laws might suck. The culture might suck. But biology will always have your back if you have a penis and there is really nothing anyone can do about it.

Its so important for guys to focus more on MONEY. Father time will reward you even more if you have your sh*t together the older you get. Cheers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh boy. I've dated this chick two years ago, I met her online on love.mail.ru. Basically she is 35, no children, not pretty face, but pretty body, freak in sex. I broke up with her because she wouldn't let me sleep. Two years later she contacts me, and that was her story, time to be mother. I just fvcked her couple of times and passed her to my late hommie, I don't know if he dated her before he passed away or not.

You as a girl can date around and stuff, but once you are past 30 and still single no children, realize something is wrong with you.
 

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When my date blew me off 3 weeks ago (something that ended up being my own fault) I was at the bar and the bartender was a cute 31 year old woman, never married, no kids.

The other waitresses and female bartenders there ended up meeting my girlfriend over the next few days when we met there twice. They said "OMG that girl is SOOOOO HOT!!!!" and were literally falling over themselves around her.

So I brought a folder full of 8.5x11 glossy prints of the photos I took of her during those two dates they met her. But the 31 year old was there, so I didn't open the folder.

However, after 30 minutes she said "So... what ever happened to that girl who cancelled on you?"

I held up the folder and said "Would you like to see photos?"

You never saw a bigger mushroom cloud go up over a girls head. Needless to say, she did NOT want to see them. While I sympathized with her frustration (I'm 16 years older than her and this girl is 9 years younger than her), her instant jealousy was inappropriate IMO, and a red flag as some would call it.

Subtitled: why men choose much younger women.
 

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The hamster is strong within Jenny Bahn, the author of the article.

-Augustus-
 

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When my date blew me off 3 weeks ago (something that ended up being my own fault) I was at the bar and the bartender was a cute 31 year old woman, never married, no kids.

The other waitresses and female bartenders there ended up meeting my girlfriend over the next few days when we met there twice. They said "OMG that girl is SOOOOO HOT!!!!" and were literally falling over themselves around her.

So I brought a folder full of 8.5x11 glossy prints of the photos I took of her during those two dates they met her. But the 31 year old was there, so I didn't open the folder.

However, after 30 minutes she said "So... what ever happened to that girl who cancelled on you?"

I held up the folder and said "Would you like to see photos?"

You never saw a bigger mushroom cloud go up over a girls head. Needless to say, she did NOT want to see them. While I sympathized with her frustration (I'm 16 years older than her and this girl is 9 years younger than her), her instant jealousy was inappropriate IMO, and a red flag as some would call it.

Subtitled: why men choose much younger women.
The bitterness and jealousy starts as early as age 26. Biology doesn't give a sh*t how anyone feels. But since girls can't argue and attack biology.. they just get angry at men for dating younger and hotter women.

Women love telling men who they should be attracted to lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Milano

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Dating younger women as we grow older are one of those few things I am starting to enjoy as I grow older. There is nothing an older woman hates more than a young attractive woman, its hysterical. Imagine, couldnt have it all could ya.
 
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What do most of them expect, they branch swing from guy to guy when their in their teens till their in their 40s. Always dropping the guy their with in search of a higher value man. Never being happy with the men they acquire along the way. Then they reach a point where their looks start to diminish 30s. Most of them have not put in work in other areas of life or have other things going on other than their looks so they start to freak out. They find themselves being non self reliant in their late 30s with their biological clock ticking like a time bomb and will sleep bare back with what ever sucker fish guy that will knock them up. In most cases meaning they have to date 10 to 15 year older men. And they want us to feel sorry for them come on now princess's wake up.
 
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