"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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30 Days to Being A Better Man : Art of Manliness

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just discovered this site last week when I was looking for tips on straight-razor shaving. It's pretty cool.
 

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They call it 30 days, but I see it as 30 habits and goals to do, and so I've given myself a whole year to achieve them. I've got 9 so far, and 2 to be completed very soon this week.
 

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The backbone of that site is actually Benjamin Franklin's 13 Virtues,something I have strived for ever since I read his autobiography

  1. [FONT=&quot]"TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation."[/FONT]
  2. [FONT=&quot]"SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation."[/FONT]
  3. [FONT=&quot]"ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time."[/FONT]
  4. [FONT=&quot]"RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve."[/FONT]
  5. [FONT=&quot]"FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing."[/FONT]
  6. [FONT=&quot]"INDUSTRY. Lose no time; be always employ'd in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions."[/FONT]
  7. [FONT=&quot]"SINCERITY. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly."[/FONT]
  8. [FONT=&quot]"JUSTICE. Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty."[/FONT]
  9. [FONT=&quot]"MODERATION. Avoid extremes; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve."[/FONT]
  10. [FONT=&quot]"CLEANLINESS. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation."[/FONT]
  11. [FONT=&quot]"TRANQUILLITY. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable."[/FONT]
  12. [FONT=&quot]"CHASTITY. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dullness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another's peace or reputation."[/FONT]
  13. [FONT=&quot]"HUMILITY. Imitate [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Jesus[/FONT][FONT=&quot] and [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Socrates[/FONT][FONT=&quot]."[/FONT]
 
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