"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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3 ways to succeed with any woman...

jeffthechef

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I was reading a thread included in the HS DJ bible and it was the one that was titled, 3 basic ways to succeed with any woman. Somewhere in it i think i said that you should completely stop contacting her to get her to think about you and why you stopped contacting her. And if she didn't contact you, she wasn't interested. Well, my question is..how long do you build her interest in you before you stop contacting her?
Thanks for your advice:eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bawb14

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Hmmm I wouldnt worry about the stop contacting part yet then haha, just focus on building kino and getting her hooked like a fish first haha. I mean now that I'm writing this, it is a lot liek fishing. The fisherman CARES about catching fish but he lies back and relaxes and waits for fish to come to him and bite!
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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You should think of "no contact" as sort of a last chance type effort. If a girl gives you strange mixed signals (i.e. showing high interest on the first few dates and then starting to show low interest and becoming flakey etc.) then i would advise using it. I wouldn't advise using it if the girl is showing interest. If she's showing interest (or she thinks she is) and you go no contact, she'll think you aren't interested.

As for "building interest", check out anti-dumps machine in the bible. You shouldn't be trying to "build" anything. If she's interested she'll make it very clear to you.
 

Sammo

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Dont be that guy that stands around 'looking cool' .... he never has sex. Dont get me wrong she should always be second guessing wether or not she has a chance with you and constantly leave her wondering, but there are more effective ways of doing this.

As viva said.. use it as a last attempt when she doesnt look all that keen and play your cards right the 2nd time round. OR, go **** another chick who is interested. Easy.
 
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