"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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3 Ways Impatience Ruins your Romantic Life

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NeverFear

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1. Trying to get "serious". Remember, guys you NEVER bring that topic up. She brings it up.

2. Jealousy. You try to get her to say she wants to be exclusive with you. Turns off her attraction.

3. Kiss on the first date. Never do it. Wait.

Patience. Patience.

Leads to mystery.


Indifference leads to attraction.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wholeheartedly agree.

However, #3 deserves more explanations than "Never do it. Wait." IMO, it's about how well the date went, and what you believe should be the right thing to do. In most cases, I think it's better to let the tension build and keep the kiss for the second date.

Anywho... good post, fair pointers.

-Bill
 
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yea im with bill on #3, i'd say a first date kiss is optional, but usually it's best to kiss close at the end of the date...if not then you must do it on date 2

anyway i messed up. on date 1 i kiss closed this girl. but date 2 went so well, and there wre many romantic opportunites to kiss...i left her hanging w/o a kiss. not that i was nervous but i didnt think it was that important. When i left she looked a little disappointed and confused....well i gotta make it up the next time i see her
 
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